Originally Posted by !@#$%!
"psycho" is correct. i did not put that link in my post above for a joke.
once upon a time i had this friend, after we hang out one night she tells me about this jewish myth of the perfect partner blah blah blah, i kinda took the hit but did my version of "it ain't me babe", because , among other things, i had a girl (at that point the situation had become long-distance, but still...)
anyway we continued as friends for a while, my long distance situation obviously disintegrated, i was sad & on the rebound she insisted we dated, i said no, eventually that turned into an offer of non-commital sex.
now children this is the time when i tell you if a chick ever offers you the chance to ball her no strings attached, RUN to the nearest exit because it's a lie, it's just a way to get you into the sack and later claim that you don't care about her feelings. really. no matter how desperate you are, don't do it.
anyway so i being the horngoat i am, after much insistence and a bit of drink i said ok, and though i didn't like her that way, we started sexing on occasion. funny thing is, i started to get depressed, and she started to get more demanding asking me to go with her to parties and that, pretty much trying to turn me into her boyfriend, so after some consideration i told her no can do, this cannot continue, we should have stayed just friends, and maybe we can do that.
well the amount of RAGE she threw at me during the following year was insane and inordinate. you would have thought i had ran over her puppy on purpose. i had to remain in the vicinity of her due to some work situation, so there was no escape. she tried to sabotage my work, made all sorts of accusations, and even made some public scandals which i avoided for the most part-- but didn't come out unscathed.
this is the horrible thing about these BPDs-- they see everything in black or white and are very prone to rage. from being the coolest greatest person she knew (i never ate that up) i had become satan incarnate and i had soiled her honor & gotten her into sordid situations and taken advantage of her and what not.
oh yes man next time you spot those slash scars in the wrists do yourself a favor and GET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE.
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