What's the difference?

OK not let's see...

• Cute
• Certain amount of brightness/must love reading!
• Open minded enough in both general drug taking and new music
• Good in socail situations and doesn't get all annoyingly shy

And sadly my current girlfriend only fits one them demands:rolleyes:

toooo beeee like teh bilinda!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i dont know how to describe what i look in them

well based on your previous few posts, I'm sure you can describe them as...

or extreme boredom.

but i could do with onna those.

or coffee

i dont drink t3h cofffffeee i can has get taiiillllll from itttt

I drinnkkk rockkst4r right now aannndddd Caffieennee HITZ me

br000ttttalzzzzzz\z!!!dfgwoni

smell is oh so important. i like it when you can smell someone and its really nice and sometimes i think that scent is really an amazing way of attracting someone. i am not in perfume btw.

I agree with smelling good. That's the best thing.

I don't actively look for a "significant other" because I have a hard time considering someone to be significant, period. I don't like having one person who wants to hang around me 24/7. And I don't like to date.
With that said, I appreciate these qualities:

-Good looking (or at least interesting to look at if they can't manage that much).
-Keeps mouth shut when they don't have anything good to say.
-Funny. If you can't be funny then at least be carefree/flirtatious/sexy.
-Has their own interests and doesn't try to borrow my own to impress me. That's the worst.
-Isn't going through a painfully awkward stage in their life.
-Someone whose every interest isn't apparent just by looking at them. I think "mystery" is stupid, but try to be a little less obvious maybe.

Smiling. Simple as that. It makes me so happy when anyone smiles at me and I love when people smile a lot

I have said it before and I will say it until the day I die.
A woman, ANY woman, becomes ten times more beautiful and lovely just from an honest smile.

good-looking
spontaneous
READS
listens to good music- not just picks up on what i listen to and sticks to similar stuff but hunts out their own tunes
funny- and not just teenage-boy funny
must smell good. or decent. i fucking hate axe.
independent. or able to not have to be around me constantly.
making out for more than 20 minutes at a time bores me.
knows when to shut the hell up
i hate pet names
semi-mysterious
won't judge me

yeah for miss deschanel.

I agree with that a lot. Every single guy that I ended up going out with, I felt like I've bumped into them by accident rather than because I was actively looking out for a second half. When someone seems to have in their mind only relationships, it puts me off them completely. Go and learn to be single and happy, then potential boyfriends sneak out from under big stones for you. Independence is a quality that I like in a man a lot, as well an interest in stuff, people and all the usual blah blah blah.

Pretty much this:


+ is happy, is Danish/Oriental.

witty
must have things in common ie taste in music, activities
not boring
fantastic sex (sorry, you're out if you can't live up to this standard)
willing to live in the same space as me without being clingy 24/7...
listens to me instead of being all zoned out watching TV and only hearing bits and pieces
quiet. but will talk for me when i get too shy to say anything.
let me be independent and spend my own money etc, don't go around buying me flowers and candy and jewelry, i can buy my own thanks
no chest hair
dark hair
imperfect teeth - perfect straight white teeth gross me out
at least 6' tall, preferably taller

oh i could not agree more

That is how it happened with me, I wasn't looking for anyone in particular. Then bam there he was, and we are going 13 months strong this month.

I do agree with independence, I don't care about someone with a lot of similar taste only somethings we can do together, like going to watch a movie or something like that.

I don't have relationship checklists. I find them shallow and rude. If I can sit down with her and be totally enamored, all the small "characteristics" that I tell myself that I look for can take a hike. I'm not looking for a breed of dog, I'm looking for a mature relationship.