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jonathan 12.02.2007 03:44 PM

This is not a problem that should be delt with on a message board. You deal with these things by being flakey... it's common knowlege. When people are mean to you, you stop hanging out with them. If you can't do that, then maybe you should look into why you can't do that instead of coming on here and turning this into a middle school birthday party.

or get a fucking livejournal.

!@#$%! 12.02.2007 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by jonathan
This is not a problem that should be delt with on a message board. You deal with these things by being flakey... it's common knowlege. When people are mean to you, you stop hanging out with them. If you can't do that, then maybe you should look into why you can't do that instead of coming on here and turning this into a middle school birthday party.

or get a fucking livejournal.


hey, fuckface-- while you might have some sort of a point, nobody qualified you for setting up policy of what people can and cannot post here. go fuck yourself.

Savage Clone 12.02.2007 03:52 PM

Ladies and Gentlemen!
In this corner...THE ANGRY ANDEAN!

!@#$%! 12.02.2007 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Savage Clone
Ladies and Gentlemen!
In this corner...THE ANGRY ANDEAN!

ha ha. i actually grew up on the coast.

you got a problem with it? :D

Savage Clone 12.02.2007 03:55 PM

Wrestler names need not be based in fact.

!@#$%! 12.02.2007 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Savage Clone
Wrestler names need not be based in fact.

oh!

that...

i've been unkindly called "mr. intensity"

can i use that?

--

ps wait

can i call you the Vegan Viking?

ALIEN ANAL 12.02.2007 06:52 PM

hang on why are u breaking up with him?
i didnt read the whole thing but u said he rings u when hes taking a shit..he sounds pretty cool.i say stay friends.

pbradley 12.02.2007 07:07 PM

Conversely, my best friend from high school drunkly call me up and said that he missed me and what not.

So I'm gonna be chill with that fool this Christmas. Gonna get our drink on since I've never drank with him.

girlgun 12.02.2007 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jonathan
This is not a problem that should be delt with on a message board. You deal with these things by being flakey... it's common knowlege. When people are mean to you, you stop hanging out with them. If you can't do that, then maybe you should look into why you can't do that instead of coming on here and turning this into a middle school birthday party.

or get a fucking livejournal.



you're partially right, but i was more or less wanting to hear others experiences when they've had to do it.

i'm an asshole. yep.

ALIEN ANAL 12.02.2007 10:07 PM

breaking up with your brest friend is stupid
your not married to him
just see him when you want to if he annoys you
should be lucky u got someone to make u laugh
do you have other friends that are nice to you and listen to you?

girlgun 12.02.2007 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ALIEN ANAL
breaking up with your brest friend is stupid
your not married to him
just see him when you want to if he annoys you
should be lucky u got someone to make u laugh
do you have other friends that are nice to you and listen to you?



yeah i do have nice friends. actually those are pretty wise words. i just had really hurt feelings from last night (he was so drunk he doesn't remember and didn't believe he'd said that). guess sometimes one needs to vent which is why i posted stupid crap. last night compounded with all the previous abuse gets tiresome, but yeah... probably smart to surround myself with the good ones, huh?

ALIEN ANAL 12.02.2007 10:22 PM

well you can surround your self with good friends
but non of them will be like your best friend that makes you laugh.
surely after so many yrs (im assuming its been a long relationship) you have grown to understand what he is like..not saying that its acceptable but if you need your nice friends go to them..but i bet they dont ring you when they are going to do a shit.

and plus he was drunk... shit like that happens

Everyneurotic 12.02.2007 10:49 PM

yeah, like it's you duty to put up with drunken assholes.

*sarcasm off*

jonathan 12.03.2007 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
hey, fuckface-- while you might have some sort of a point, nobody qualified you for setting up policy of what people can and cannot post here. go fuck yourself.


take your own advice, fuckface.

girlgun 12.03.2007 01:14 AM

i really had no idea this thread was worthy of drama!

and honestly ... i don't see how it's really any different than half the shit posted here.

pbradley 12.03.2007 01:41 AM

tried and true:

 

uhler 12.03.2007 07:45 AM

i just stop talking to the friend if i don't want to be around them or i just act really snobby just to put them off. i'm bad at breaking up with anybody so i just let them break up with me.

sarramkrop 12.03.2007 08:21 AM

I have a friend who used to behave a bit like that, from time to time. Everytime we would meet up, a good time was had by both, but I generally felt like I was the one doing all the listening and the cheering up, and her just being left thinking that I was strong enough to sort myself out all the time (which I generally am).

It got to a point when I was having some serious problems and she started hanging out with a, erm, colourful crowd, so when I felt at my weakest she was a little too out of it to be there for me. I never said anything, but I kind of progressively kept my distance from all her problems because I couldn't/wouldn't know what to say. That long distance seemed to have worked, and now we have re-aquainted, but with the added knowledge that while we stayed away from each other we both did some growing up, and kind of realized that it takes two to tango.

Some people are just like that, unfortunately. They never seem to understand when their own ego is going too far, therefore they end up all the more surprised when a close friend has had enough of their attitude. Perhaps you need to keep a bit of distance from said friend, avoiding arguments and words that you might regret saying to each other. Once you have both learned to live apart, you can relax and re-join. Good luck.

floatingslowly 12.03.2007 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
you're partially right, but i was more or less wanting to hear others experiences when they've had to do it.


for being the Devil's favorite girl, you sure have a hard time tellng people to fuck themselves.

it's easy. watch:

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Originally Posted by jonathan
or get a fucking livejournal.


fuck yrself, twat.

floatingslowly 12.03.2007 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by sarramkrop
a, erm, colourful crowd


RACIST.


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