shit, i never was with a girl for more than 18 months before i got married.

it was 6 months of hotness, 6 months of domesticity, 6 months of the split

like fucking clockwork

i'm not saying, by the way, this was a good thing. it just happened that way.

yes

here's how I feel at the moment:

Breaking up is total crap, let's be honest. The jealousy, loss of self-esteem, self-loathing, crisis of confidence, heartbreak, loss of appetite etc HOWEVER you get to eventually experience one of the best things ever - falling in love with somebody new - and the hottest, dirtiest sex of yr life. Yay!!

Eh, I don't think sex can get any dirtier than what I've already had.

Though, again, sex with my hand, when I'm not depressed, will probably be downright NASTY.

Maybe not. But sex will feel better/hotter with a new 'love interest'. It always does. One of the wonders of the human mind....you are doing the same stuff (moves!!) but it somehow seems better??!! :)

Haha, I actually think the best sex I have ever had is with someone I hate.

But anyway... :)

I'm single too. I guess I could have a girlfriend, but I kind of just want to get my shit together first. And I think I'm actually getting there.

why does this dude think they're dating even though you were with her all that time?

like a bored metrosexual vampire?

Short answer: She lead him on and didn't try to change his mind when he thought there was more to what they had than long-distance internet acquaintances.

Long answer: In a pm.

Haha, aw T&B...youre too funny.

But I want to know too, atsonicpark!

That sucks guys, the change.

I tried to do the same shit with my man, a couple times, but we just held it together. A few years later, I'm mostly glad that I never went off searching for something that I couldnt even name. It just wasnt...functional enough of a reason for me, I guess. I still do want to try some shit I never have, leave my comfort zone in some ways, break out of the rat race with my own ideas etc. But I dont feel like I have to be split from my guy to do those things. Apart of me does wonder if I'd be forced into getting the focus required to make certain changes if I'd split from him, but finding a partner that I truly enjoy being around, and fuck, enjoys being around me, as I live along with a growing general hatred for humans, is enough of a lucky strike for me to just feel really grateful for. I think I can still do some of the seeking about my individuality that girls seem to be about these days, with a partner.

Seriously.