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SpectralJulianIsNotDead 12.06.2010 11:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by knox
God.

I have a friend who was forced to see some other boy fuck a pig.


Has anyone ever told you what an asshole you are? You make it sound like a contest.

I'm not saying I was scarred by it or I have nightmares or anything. Just that I was sexually harassed and I think it happens to a majority of young men without them realizing it, and that I can sympathize with the girl at the office who gets her ass grabbed by her boss.

ann ashtray 12.06.2010 11:16 AM

Meanwhile, behind the facade of the innocent looking message board...

Knox has a friend who was forced to see some other boy fuck a pig.

finding nobody 12.06.2010 11:43 AM

Had a similar experience with Sway having to do with seeing porn pretty early on. I don't think it had that much of an effect on me. It just confused the shit out of me! But, when I tried to get my Dad to explain didn't say anything..

ann ashtray 12.06.2010 12:07 PM

CUTE!

pbradley 12.06.2010 12:37 PM

 

Derek 12.06.2010 12:45 PM

Golf clap.

kinn 12.06.2010 12:46 PM

 

kinn 12.06.2010 12:56 PM

your parents are your murderers.

SONIC GAIL 12.06.2010 12:59 PM

hahahahahahahahahahaha

flashlight69 12.06.2010 01:10 PM

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demonrail666 12.06.2010 01:13 PM

I always feel a bit left out when the whole sex abuse thing gets raised. I was never fiddled with as a kid and I've never done any illegal fiddling. Oh well.

SONIC GAIL 12.06.2010 01:14 PM

thats a good thing

demonrail666 12.06.2010 01:16 PM

try telling that to my psychiatrist

knox 12.06.2010 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SpectralJulianIsNotDead
Has anyone ever told you what an asshole you are? You make it sound like a contest.

I'm not saying I was scarred by it or I have nightmares or anything. Just that I was sexually harassed and I think it happens to a majority of young men without them realizing it, and that I can sympathize with the girl at the office who gets her ass grabbed by her boss.



I said "God" as in: that is terrible, because I truly felt your experiences were terrible.

I told my friend's case because I remembered it and it had something to do with the thread, not because I felt like there's a competition going on.

And I'm the asshole?

Seriously, if whatever I'm saying is not very clear to you you can always ask before making paranoid assumptions and insulting people.

Don't worry whenever I am an asshole I'll be VERY clear about it.

My actual thought was that your experience must have been terrible.

knox 12.06.2010 01:41 PM

But to the fair the pig thing was actually really damaging too, it seems. Tho it is most likely a lie.

ploesj 12.06.2010 01:51 PM

just to be clear, pedophilia means being sexually attracted to prepubescent children... so that means kids who don't show any signs of being a teenager yet. no developing breasts, no pubic hair. the dad looking at the barely legal models is just attracted to young women, it doesn't make him a pedophile in any way (these women are young but they do look like women, not like children)

when a teen is molested it is called sexual abuse, not pedophilia.

and on topic: i've never had this happen to me. thank god.

knox 12.06.2010 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ploesj
just to be clear, pedophilia means being sexually attracted to prepubescent children... so that means kids who don't show any signs of being a teenager yet. no developing breasts, no pubic hair. the dad looking at the barely legal models is just attracted to young women, it doesn't make him a pedophile in any way (these women are young but they do look like women, not like children)

when a teen is molested it is called sexual abuse, not pedophilia.

and on topic: i've never had this happen to me. thank god.


I think most victims wouldn't feel comfortable posting about it on the internet.

SONIC GAIL 12.06.2010 01:55 PM

yes

knox 12.06.2010 01:57 PM

When I was younger I had a friend who put her own father in jail for abusing her and her sister. She barely ever wanted to talk about it, we talked about music mostly. I found it curious that she would go and see him on his birthday, for example. It clearly disturbed her a lot, but I didn't know what to do, and she didn't want to talk about it.

SpectralJulianIsNotDead 12.07.2010 01:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pbradley
 


Actually he was my age at the time. I should have punched him the face looking back at the situation. He did the same shit to other people too.

Quote:

Originally Posted by knox
I said "God" as in: that is terrible, because I truly felt your experiences were terrible.

I told my friend's case because I remembered it and it had something to do with the thread, not because I felt like there's a competition going on.

And I'm the asshole?

Seriously, if whatever I'm saying is not very clear to you you can always ask before making paranoid assumptions and insulting people.

Don't worry whenever I am an asshole I'll be VERY clear about it.

My actual thought was that your experience must have been terrible.



Sorry, my mistake. This is the internet, shoot first, ask questions later. I generally tend to assume the worst intonations from typed messages.


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