I don't know, I still believe in the old mentality of "being a gentleman."

What I can't stand is girls that let you pay for them when they aren't serious about you.

I think ideally, people dating wouldn't go dutch, but the one who had their dinner paid for the time before would pay for it the next time.

To me though, as a guy, splitting the check with a girlfriend/date is just kind of weird. Because that is what you do with a friend.

I don't know. . .

At the same time I'd like to go dutch, because then that would mean that the girl is dating me for more reasons than to get a free meal every week (which is how I felt with my last girlfriend.)

blindate with a chancer we had oyster and dry lancers and the check when it arrived we went dutch, dutch, dutch!

:D:D:D:D

You can always wear girls clothes. Although, there are always cons. A few nights ago we were yelling at this girl in the drivethrough at McDonalds, and anyway, there was this fratboy that yelled

"Are you wearing girls jeans?!"
"Yeah man!! I am!"
"isn't that a little gay?"
"Yeah actually. It's very GAY. It's FAGGISH"
"Just like us" I think they were thinking I was the stereotypical perverted gay person and hoping I was stupid enough to say I was 'interested' in them
"Great, good for you"

You get that from time to time.

I really miss having a Girlfriend too. I'm just too picky now. I never go out with anyone for the hell of it anymore becuase they're not like me. I have special friends, but it's not the same as a relationship.

I wish they had skirts for men that were not kilts.

I very much enjoy wearing a t-shirt with my red towel around my waste after my shower.

But it's not "being a gentleman" if the girl wants to pay her own way, which is what I'm saying.

Yeah but sometimes its not that explicit

I gotta stop insisting to not pay.

edit: I mean to pay.

Ever heard the phrase "loneliness is an eyesore"?

Well it is.

I'm not lonely, I just miss being able to fondle some breast on a bidaily basis.

my mainly black clothing is due mainly to a few reasons, I'm lazy and like to put all my clothes in one wash and very few other colours suit me, I think black makes me look cool and black is the colour I most associate with happiness.

So do I, I just try not to think about it. I smoke listen, to music & draw; then I find myself going to bed alone which suck the most only then to have suck even more when I wake up by myself. Honestly this shit needs to change, it;s funny I have a friend who broke up with his girl & then started making out with a easy girl. I'll be honest I could have had this girl if I wish but she's very loose so I choose not because I want something for me & not just for that night or someone whose been passed around like a joint.