Oh, and if you do it more, you get better at it.

That whole "it's more special if you don't make a habit of it" attitude is high-larious.
MAKE A HABIT OF IT.

shut up, change your clothes

Easy for you to say, Mr. I-Don't-Own-A-Shirt.

ha ha ha ha

are there people who actually say that??

--
but anyway, not to put pressure on the innocents, different people have different "needs". there is no law that you have to do it 3 times a day 7 days a week for the whole year. what's important i think is that the sexual appetites match, or you're going to have one furious and frustrated masturbator or the person will simply go have their needs met elsewhere. on the other hand, those who feel accosted... i can't empathize, i have never been in that situation, but i suppose it must be uncomfortable when someone is constantly humping your leg. anyway. basically, everyone is different, good luck children.

Attractive is in the brain not in the eyes. I was certainly attracted to my, now ex-wife, and certainly, that is among the reasons she is my ex-wife. That certainly seems like a potential sign.

But the biggest thing for me, going back to the thread title, was that I didn't miss her when I was away for any length of time. At the beginning, there was always so much you wanted to say and do together. At the end, her voice and presence annoyed me.

I think it's when you can finally get along with each other.

It is damn near 50/50 me thinks (emotional connection, physical connection).

Connection seems to be a biggy especially for women. That's what my ex told me was more important to her than sex. For me sex was more important so I did what any red blooded male would do, I communicated my need to have sex. :) Seriously I did communicate more and the relationship got better even though the amount of sex didn't increase. The sex we did have though had more passion and so it was better.

As for the title of this thread: when she or he stops laughing at your jokes or your funny mannerisms that used to amuse them so....

Oh man this thread is so old. Needless to say we are still together. We talked and just communicated our frustration, and the relationship is much healthier than then.

When you look forward to them going to work and dread them coming home. And not just once in a while (that's normal), but all the time.

Fuck. I think I might be starting to like my alone time a little too much, as sad as that makes me to admit it. :( I just hope I'm over analyzing everything (Which I have a tendency to do) and am just generally thinking too much into it.

~Jeremy~

Oh what happened?? Or was it always this way
?

When all the mystery is gone.

when you prefer watching a cooking show on tv over riding your bike for twenty minutes to see him.

needless to say, this isn't the case at all. i barely watch tv these days :D

Like walking in the rain and snow
When there’s nowhere to go
And you’re feeling like a part of you is dying
And you’re looking for the answer in her eyes
You think you’re gonna break up
Then she says she wants to make up

it was over when I began to begin.

If she isn't down with the clown.

wut up fam? woop woop

Not much. Just driving around southwest Detroit with a trunk full of Faygo, and a car full of fat chicks.

Yourself?

MCL

I'm sorry. I can't fake it anymore.

I was sent by the government to infiltrate yr juggaloo posse.

:(

it's over.

......


lol, me

i stand by this statement


i don't know how to answer the question, right now i'm feeling very conflicted because i'm in love with two people....i'm still madly in love with my ex boyfriend who is still my very best friend and i've been through hell with and i honestly don't know why we broke up, my mental state and drug abuse was out of control at the time. there's so much sexual tension between us every time we hang out


i don't have a clue what to do

When it never really began, but in yr heart it was so real, and they speak to you and ask... If yr so funny, then why are you on your own tonight? And if you're so very good looking, hen why do you sleep alone tonight? That's when you know it's over. But still you say, you don't know where else you can go..

you're not "in love"-- you wanna fuck them.

actually, "in love" is not love-- it's pent-up horniness. it's what you feel when you wanna fuck them but can't-- all love poetry, since sappho to this day, is about wanting to fuck some unattainable person.

once you fuck them, it's business as usual.

so-- arrange a threesome. case closed. ha!

i think i remember why you broke up with el duderino but not sure you want me to remind you.

you're so wrong. I love my cat but I dont wanna fuck it.

or are we gonig to talk about the four classic greek loves and how you're only referring to eros?

you love your cat, you're not "in love" with it-- are you?

if you re-read my post, you'll notice i said


comprehension is a pre-requisite of criticism.

ah yes! now you're talking.

sorry for getting cranky above, but this came later.

well, I'm happy to say "I love my cat", I don't feel the need to define it. I'm fairly sure most people have an unspoken understanding of the type of love I'm speaking of. Unless I'm writing volumes, I dont see the point in defining in every day life...

maybe I do want to sex my cat actually...

he's pretty handsome.

yeah, but the limitations of the english language ("love" meaning all kinds of shit) causes people to get confused/puzzled about their own feelings and how they talk about them, which meddles with their minds.

kinda like in anna karenina, when levin finally realizes that, while he had been living right, he had been thinking wrong and had suffered unnecessarily.

someone elses limitations are really not my problem. Or are you trying to make cantank aware of the possibility of hers?

i was talking to my online friend about her stated problem. we often PM & shit. she's my favorite bitch-from-hell on this dump. in other words, she rules.

what limitations?

ok.

I'm pretty sure this doesn't apply if you're talking utter bollocks, cogently.

I love Coors Light. It tastes good.



I love the cold activated blue mountains. I love the silver bullets.

when they say
"we need to talk"
thats the time to get in there first

i know what my reasoning was at the time and i don't really care anymore, i did worse to him than he did to me. trust me.

okay forget 'in love' then, because i get what youre saying, but i do love them both and i will always love ex more, and it's not quite a matter of sexual attraction although that has something to do with it, i'm fucking burning alive and i don't know what to do. threesome will fuck everything up ....and if i'm getting in bed w two other people one of em better have a pussy

ive been in love twice, both times it was horrible because the first one was nice but she just didnt like me, and the second was willing to sleeep with me. I really loved her, what a chump i am.

hahaha @ #3 = pussy

sorry you're in a tough spot, and sorry i can't offer any insight or consolation, much less amid this thread's twattery. PM me or something? i'll check every now & then.