How about a diver with either a finger or a dildo anally.

this may sound bizarre to you, but if this is not psychological (it could be, who knows), you might have low testosterone. men and women have both estrogen and testosterone, and women with low testosterone have problems getting off-- i'm not joking.

why not go to a doctor & get checked? they could do a blood test to check your various hormone levels, blood sugar, liver & kidney function, etc.

we're highly unqualified to do this...

too true on the severe lack of qualifications for SYG to discuss this!


any doctors in the house?

every woman should have a gynecologist they trust. just saying.

i think i have some extra testosterone.....

exactly. its like dropping acid, you can't spend the first 45 minutes anticipating, desiring for and even imagining the trip, you just have to let shit hit you, and BAM .

in a related note I have only had a similar problem once, but it was not quite a feelingless orgasm as much as I honestly and openly was taking so damned long after over an hour I was desperately thinking about faking it? But how do you fake it as a guy? There is no way.. so I just balked, and took the shit or get off the pot attitude about it, so I had to just split.

I am surprised that amerikangod is the only dude who jumped in this thread, as it got ALL our regular ladies attention.. ;)

yeah, i saw those pics of you with a huge tache

ha!

but yes, levels vary. too high and you can always make a living as a drag performer, but too low and life is just no fun.

i hope you're not serious.

i kind of know you're joking, but if you're not... wow.

no
but i gotta blame something

Oh...I'm not serious....I can't be serious in a topic which I really have no knowledge about.

good. phew!

see? knoxxy is HILARIOUS!

I love the dry wit.

It feels so good that so many came to try to help. Thank you guys!!! When does the orgy begin?

*^%#, actually I'm fully aware of the possibility to have low testosterone, and have been trying to use cacao and maca to try to balance that out, (maca is a peruvian herb known to balance the endocrine system), but it might be too soon to tell.

I guess I'll see my doctor about it. I'm bummed that this wasnt more common of a problem, but I had to give it a shot. I've tried to tell myself that it just wasnt all that important "in life", but guess what? I've decided it is. I want to get fucked and feel good.

If anything good is to come out of this thread, I will see a doctor, you will all find a/your partners and have such exploding tripped out orgasms that you soak the room wet.

I think so.It seems it is always changing, the quality or whatever.

I can't believe after all these years, some people (ahem, Rob) still think that alteredcourse is a guy).

I got some great advice today!

Amerikangod, are you down for giving me at least 20 mins of body pleasure and wrapping me in sexual energy before laying the meat into the grinder ? (sorry, sticking to the first image that came to mind. please dont go.)

I've decided to vacation myself northwards and have a sexual vision quest. As I've been coached by a trusted comrade, "Imma hit that."

This happened to me for the first time last night and was slightly worrisome:(.

This morning I was redeemed, though. Probably drug-related or something.

Weed or being the catcher after a long streak of pitching helps for me.

Diphenydramine(benadryl, Unisom gelcaps) is also said to increase orgasm at standard anti-histamine or sleep doses.

Good luck. An orgasm is not something to go without.

Noooo cant do weed. Issues. Thanks though!

Hmmm...I'll give them diphenydramine a shot though. I love chemicals.

An orgasm really isnt something to go without, is it ? I feel like I have to make up for years of build up.

i'm waiting for the invitation. come on guys

I know....I know :(

As I said, I've sorta let my sexual nature slide out of priority in a compromise to keep a tight but sexless relationship. I think I'm really feeling the lack though, that it really is important and that I shouldnt have to compromise my own identity and life for the sake of a relationship.

Pm's cleared, yo.

what are ou talkin' aboot. pot makes everything better.

another excellent observation. I'm impressed here it was I thought you were just hilarious but you've shown a tender intelligent side as well. Big ups

no, no it doesn't. :(

I sincerely hope this thread has been a joke, because if not, Lord Have His Mercy, I feel compassionately anxious for some of y'all not living out all the aspects of your lives to the fullness there-of, and its a shame to be deprived. I might not be one to talk, the cobwebs on my dick have become encrusted, but I've had my fun enough times to be able to enjoy the breathing space.

I hope y'all all get these things sorted out, its a lot of fun and good for the heart, body and soul.

Were you volunteering your heart, body and soul to my pussy mission endeavors ?

Sorry, didnt mean to get so aggressive, its just that how you talk sometimes gets me all riled up.

I'm surprised this hasn't been mentioned: have you tried porn?

Dunno how you feel about the subject but that may be something to try. Are you more visual in other aspects of your life?

That's the whole deal with men and porn--men are stimulated more visually than women. But, there are some women who are the same in this respect.


Oh, and turn the sound down and play sonic yute

yeah and if porn grosses you out you could try a good old ffashioned erotic story

literotica.com is good

Sure, I've been a fiend to the pr0n. Sometimes it's great, other times its chilled by the awareness of it just being a means to an end (which contradicts Woman's Orgasm Tips #2, 6, 99, 263 and 882.)

Lucy, many thanks for that link. I LOVE that shit. I had a friend that brought me there some time ago but had completely forgot. It's so good, like a cumshot to the brain.

Not that I'm cumming any better. That site just helped the time-wastage issue that I didnt mention, so thanks.

you swore that you would never tell. :o

I'm a firm believer that sex...good sex...truly lies in one's own head. If I'm miserable or carrying a lot of stress/emotional baggage, I'm barely able to get it up...esp. these days. At 19 I could fuck and it would relieve tension...doesn't work like that anymore. I've got to be mentally clear and at least in a relatively good mood to even be able to function on a sexual level.

+ heavy drinking, at least on my end, def. doesn't help matters.

An update, for anyone interested...

I hear ya, sway. Good mental health = good sexual response, at least for me, at this point in my life.

Amerikangod, you still havent fulfilled your promises of cumming straight into my brain. I'm waiiiitiiing :)

SO. In short, I started taking head meds when I probably should have been on them a decade ago, cut off a dead relationship (we are now friends, like we should have been for years now, fuck) and am brewing something up with someone who shares a mutual intense multi-layered connection, my sex drive has skyrocketed, my pleasure for life has skyrocketed, I'm experiencing feelings in GENERAL with such clarity and focus that its like a sudden burst of fireworks in my brain at midnight. I cant be with this person yet, but I bought an amazing vibrator and have been having some of the best orgasms ever, I feel feminine for once and take care of myself and wear pretty dresses, my positivity just radiates from me and people respond back to me, everything just feels so good. Even in the turmoil of this difficult breakup, I feel like I'm being guided by a light shining on the fact that it was all meant to come down to this, that its the best thing for both of us, we will become stronger for it and so it really hasnt been so bad (as almost 10 years gone could have been).

Thanks again for all your suggestions and secrets !

excellent!

i want this.

what meds should i take? i need a vibrator too.

i want to feel feminine right now.

inb4 "pics plz"

HAHA! Oh, how I laaaauuuuughed !

nice!!! go girl pleasure.