she just doesn't want to jump into a 'date' with someone she doesn't know all that well or hasn't spoken to in years.

To be honest I'd never date anyone I went to high school with, I've kind of moved on from that time in my life..

but everyone is different.

It doesn't necessarily mean she wont ever date you, it just means she doesn't want to feel like she needs to dress up or fight off make out attempts or something.

go and hang out and see if you actually get on first. That is what it sounds like she's saying.

the fact that you are thinking it over so much suggests that you might just annoy the fak out of her if you try and do something too intensive though. Girls know when guys want them. Sometimes they pretend they don't know, but they always know... Always. and if she isn't interested then your self conciousness and over effort will just make her feel more inclined to not keep up the 'friendship'. Movies can definately be too date like..


maybe suggest meeting up at a common place when you are both already out with friends? Have a drink, etc?

5 years, huh. A lot can change in 5 years. Has she shown you a current picture?

nothing changes in five years.
lets talk about vocalizing.
i think men should vocalize a lot more, it is good to vocalize.

aw fuckit man, you're now friendboxed, sucks. but at least you tried.


if youre 15, no worries, it will get better with practice. but if you're older then youve got some serious social anxiety. which could be why you were friendboxed in the first place.

shrink + prescription = pills + therapy?

that shoud take care of the problem, unless you're faking it for the interwebs and having a laugh at our expense.

o well.