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porkmarras 04.09.2006 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by noumenal
For the record, I didn't completely get what he was trying to say either.

My understanding goes like this:

"The internet is great for trying to get away from any personality issues you might have that make it hard to deal with other people. But they inevitably come out when you post enough, like with Khchris. But give him a break and don't blast him because of his obvious shortcomings. Let him escape from them--it's the internet. And after all, aren't we all cunts when you think about it?"

How was that? I think that's pretty close.

By the way noumenal or whatever you are called.You are a fucking retard.

noumenal 04.09.2006 06:08 PM

So I got it wrong? Oh well.... I guess I shouldn't have taken so much licence with my translation. :cool:

khchris(original) 04.09.2006 06:09 PM

Porkmarras, Noumenal's a newbie. He doesn't know any better. Just ignore him.

porkmarras 04.09.2006 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by khchris(original)
Porkmarras, Noumenal's a newbie. He doesn't know any better. Just ignore him.

Yep!Ignore his posts that is.W H A T E V E V E R monumental or the moniker you hae chosen for yourself is.Have a good life.

truncated 04.09.2006 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by porkmarras
Oh well,bless you all guys(do'nt worry i'm not dear mother theresa or whatever).It's just that i'm sure you could post more stimulating stuff than:''where did i sleep last night'' or ''what type of position have i used on a steamy night of sex last night'' kind of thing.Who fucking cares?Let's up the motherfucking stakes,shall we?It's the SY forum,remember?


I'm still not sure if you're referring to someone in particular. If you're saying that I post irrelevant shit on here - well, yeah, I do. Not the specific examples you cited, but sure, I'm guilty of that.

Though I'm still not sure what your overall moral is. I honestly don't mean this to be rude, but the wording of your other post makes it difficult to understand.

**Edit: I do mean to be rude. Enthusiastically so.

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Originally Posted by porkmarras
By the way noumenal or whatever you are called.You are a fucking retard.


Now regarding THAT comment -

What in holy hell crawled up your ass and died?

Noumenal is one of the most entertaining, intelligent, informative posters on this board. While he may have misinterpreted your post, it was in the interests of being helpful.

So rather than have a premenstrual moment and sling baseless insults at a well-meaning, very cool guy, who wasn't even ADDRESSING you, perhaps your time would be better spent learning to articulate yourself more effectively.

If you didn't write like you were fucking retarded, this wouldn't even be an issue.

Jeeeeeeezus, is there some kind of Tampax convention on this board that I didn't get invited to?

truncated 04.09.2006 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by porkmarras
Yep!Ignore his posts that is.W H A T E V E V E R monumental or the moniker you hae chosen for yourself is.Have a good life.


Are you sure YOU'RE not drunk?

khchris(original) 04.09.2006 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by truncated
I'm still not sure if you're referring to someone in particular. If you're saying that I post irrelevant shit on here - well, yeah, I do. Not the specific examples you cited, but sure, I'm guilty of that.

Though I'm still not sure what your overall moral is. I honestly don't mean this to be rude, but the wording of your other post makes it difficult to understand.

**Edit: I do mean to be rude. Enthusiastically so.



Now regarding THAT comment -

What in holy hell crawled up your ass and died?

Noumenal is one of the most entertaining, intelligent, informative posters on this board. While he may have misinterpreted your post, it was in the interests of being helpful.

So rather than have a premenstrual moment and sling baseless insults at a well-meaning, very cool guy, who wasn't even ADDRESSING you, perhaps your time would be better spent learning to articulate yourself more effectively.

If you didn't write like you were fucking retarded, this wouldn't even be an issue.

Jeeeeeeezus, is there some kind of Tampax convention on this board that I didn't get invited to?






What you need is an Internet Date.

porkmarras 04.09.2006 06:35 PM

Nah you are both retards.Fuck you both.Wich part of that did you not understand?Fuck fuck,yep!,fuck you two.

khchris(original) 04.09.2006 06:38 PM

porkmarras, no need to stoop to their level. Let them enjoy the "teabagging":)

qprogeny79 04.09.2006 06:40 PM

with due respect, what is wrong with people lately?

"have you no sense of decency? at long last, have you no sense of decency?"

khchris(original) 04.09.2006 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by qprogeny79
with due respect, what is wrong with people lately?

"have you no sense of decency? at long last, have you no sense of decency?"



Well, the Trunkster appears to have a lack of self-esteem and has resorted to internet dating because she's found that pretending to be someone else is much more appealing to strangers than being herself.

Noumenal needs friends.

Everyone thinks the US is going to war(LOL!).

Other than that, the weather is nice and just waiting for Sopranos & Big Love.

porkmarras 04.09.2006 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by khchris(original)
porkmarras, no need to stoop to their level. Let them enjoy the "teabagging":)

ha ha bless khchris.Much love to all of you no matter what the limited brain cells activity is making you think.After all your maain activity is survival and so is mine.

qprogeny79 04.09.2006 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by khchris(original)
Well, the Trunkster appears to have a lack of self-esteem and has resorted to internet dating because she's found that pretending to be someone else is much more appealing to strangers than being herself.

Noumenal needs friends.

Everyone thinks the US is going to war(LOL!).

Other than that, the weather is nice and just waiting for Sopranos & Big Love.


no, that's exactly what i mean. not your assessments of everyone, but the fact that so many people here seem so wont to generalize from whatever people have written here to outright judgments of character -- when few people here have ever even met the objects of their verbal attacks in person. this is a discussion board, and its only purpose is for discussion. etiquette is key; even if you disagree with someone or aren't fond of what he or she says, here as in real life it is no license to come back and abuse him or her, verbally or otherwise -- and the fact that we are all hiding behind a huge digitized veil of pseudo-anonymity is no excuse.

this goes for everyone here.

HaydenAsche 04.09.2006 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by porkmarras
Yep!Ignore his posts that is.W H A T E V E V E R monumental or the moniker you hae chosen for yourself is.Have a good life.


Learn how to type a damn sentence, retard.

amyvega 04.09.2006 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by qprogeny79
no, that's exactly what i mean. not your assessments of everyone, but the fact that so many people here seem so wont to generalize from whatever people have written here to outright judgments of character -- when few people here have ever even met the objects of their verbal attacks in person. this is a discussion board, and its only purpose is for discussion. etiquette is key; even if you disagree with someone or aren't fond of what he or she says, here as in real life it is no license to come back and abuse him or her, verbally or otherwise -- and the fact that we are all hiding behind a huge digitized veil of pseudo-anonymity is no excuse.

this goes for everyone here.


regarding outbursts or judgement on this board..what else do we have to go by? maybe i'm naive in assuming that mostly everyone here is being honest, even people i might not be crazy about. i think some of us here 'know' each other enough to make comments, although i agree w/you that they shouldn't be crude or unnecessary; i just don't agree that we're all 'hiding' behind anything, clearly we've shared enough on this board (and the other board) to form opinions about one another

noumenal 04.09.2006 07:32 PM

Good point amyvega, but you also have to be careful. In qprogeny's opinion, I was a douchebag on the Wal-Mart thread, and he's pretty much right. I was a bit of a jerk. So, I won't treat him that way again. I hope he doesn't hate me forever, because he seems like a decent guy despite his nutty ideas.

But then again, you'd think he was pretty used to outbursts like that - there are lots of people who would flip out worse than I did if they heard him expressing some of his views.

Toilet & Bowels 04.09.2006 07:45 PM

porkmarras is normally a friendly dude... but here... he... is.... being.... a... right... PRICK! Maybe truncated and porker should bond over their shared prediliction for botty sex?

Toilet & Bowels 04.09.2006 07:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by qprogeny79
no, that's exactly what i mean. not your assessments of everyone, but the fact that so many people here seem so wont to generalize from whatever people have written here to outright judgments of character -- when few people here have ever even met the objects of their verbal attacks in person. this is a discussion board, and its only purpose is for discussion. etiquette is key; even if you disagree with someone or aren't fond of what he or she says, here as in real life it is no license to come back and abuse him or her, verbally or otherwise -- and the fact that we are all hiding behind a huge digitized veil of pseudo-anonymity is no excuse.

this goes for everyone here.



stop being a pussy and let people butt heads if they want to.

truncated 04.09.2006 07:52 PM

The way I see it, no matter what medium you're in, whether it be virtual or in person, by merely making the choice to communicate with another person, you are subjecting yourself to another's judgement.

There is no way to know whether any form of expression is truly representative of a person's "identity," nor is that particularly relevant, to an extent. The way in which you communicate your ideas is representative of some facet of your personality, whether it be genuine or fabricated, and by participating in any socially dynamic activity, you are automatically responsible for whatever impact your words/expressions have upon another.

What I mean, in short, is that if you call someone a cunt, whether or not that's typical behavior and representative of your "true" personality, you must prepare yourself for whatever reaction the subject of your comment has.

I called khchris a cunt, and he and any others are free to think of me what they will. I take full responsibility for such a comment. It is an expression of my opinion, and I do not expect others to agree with it.

The moment you open your mouth (or in this case tap your keyboard), you are accountable for what happens.

Also, again, whether fabricated or genuine, the tiny nuances of a person's style of communication and word choice speak volumes about their personality. And these 'generalizations' are not always such - they are reasonable deductions from observations of a person's behavior over time.

If I'm ever wrong in my observations, I welcome corrections. But I will continue to judge. It is an involuntary human behavior, and anyone that says he is above it is either mistaken or deceiving himself.

truncated 04.09.2006 07:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toilet & Bowels
porkmarras is normally a friendly dude... but here... he... is.... being.... a... right... PRICK! Maybe truncated and porker should bond over their shared prediliction for botty sex?


I was thinking the same thing!

About porkmarras normally being friendly, not about the botty sex bit.

This is totally surreal. Has the forum collectively gone mad?

qprogeny79 04.09.2006 08:13 PM

yeah, my main point was that there's a difference between judgment and name-calling. you can tell people what you think without spewing venom. but if the other party is ok with spewing venom that's a different story.

and no, noumenal, i've never been given a response to an opinion that's quite as forceful as yours, despite the perceived radicality of my ideas . . . but whatever, all in good sport.

HaydenAsche 04.09.2006 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by qprogeny79
yeah, my main point was that there's a difference between judgment and name-calling. you can tell people what you think without spewing venom. but if the other party is ok with spewing venom that's a different story.


Judgement - You are a cunt.

Name-calling - Cunt.

qprogeny79 04.09.2006 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by HaydenAsche
Judgement - You are a cunt.

Name-calling - Cunt.


who, me?

guilty as charged.

HaydenAsche 04.09.2006 08:18 PM

Yeah, you. Cunt.

qprogeny79 04.09.2006 08:19 PM

whatever, twat.

(tongue firmly in cheek)

HaydenAsche 04.09.2006 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by qprogeny79
whatever, twat.

(tongue firmly in cheek)


I resent that.

Toilet & Bowels 04.09.2006 08:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by truncated
I was thinking the same thing!

About porkmarras normally being friendly, not about the botty sex bit.


i wasn't suggesting you engage in botty sex, just some how use it as common ground... although that does seem unlikely

Quote:

Originally Posted by truncated
This is totally surreal. Has the forum collectively gone mad?


quite.

qprogeny79 04.09.2006 09:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HaydenAsche
I resent that.


don't. no harm intended . . . you wonderful, wonderful human being.

HaydenAsche 04.09.2006 10:02 PM

Stop hitting on me, queer.

finding nobody 04.09.2006 10:28 PM

How cute!!! They're fighting on the internet!

!@#$%! 04.09.2006 10:42 PM

hah hah
this is either the funniest thread ever of the most pathetic

for the record:

1) truncated is awesome. while i've admired her razor-sharp wit for a couple of weeks now, her assesments of some people's behaviors around here are so perfectly accurate i am now in awe of her and might start a religion.

2) noumenal is one of the smartest, best-read people around here, and calling him dumb or stupid or whatever is simply absurd.

3) i like porkmarras but i don't understand why he got angry at truncated or what the fight is about. i hope they make nice, butt sex or no butt sex :D

4) khchris, who is like 30, used to get all giggly on the internet with missingjmascis, who was at the time a 15 year old high school girl. according to their own public confessions, he used to called her on the phone, call her cute names, and send her cake. this while he was living with his regular girlfriend. yiiiiiikes!!!! hard candyyyyy!!!!!!!!!

5) khchris never apologized to hot eyed bride, but kept making excuses to justify what he had written (& you all can see).

6) khchris is soooooo not cooooooool!!! (but i don't hate him-- cmon-- hate??? why waste good hate on this...)

7) and i have fucking awesome memory :D. and i don't love everybody cos i'm not a fucking hippy, so i'm not going to let the insanos get away with their usual crap, but most people here are pretty cool by me-- most. now let's stop world war III or whatever this nonsense is and laugh at ourselves a little for all this wasted energy.




 


(that's not my butt by the way. mine is a much finer one and the pictures are not free)

HaydenAsche 04.09.2006 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by !@#$%!
hah hah
this is either the funniest thread ever of the most pathetic

for the record:

1) truncated is awesome. while i've admired her wit is razor-sharp for a couple of weeks now, her assesments of some people's behaviors around here are so perfectly accurate i am now in awe of her and might start a religion.

2) noumenal is one of the smartest, best-read people around here, and calling him dumb or stupid or whatever is simply absurd.

3) i like porkmarras but i don't understand why he got angry at truncated or what the fight is about. i hope they make nice, butt sex or no butt sex :D

4) khchris, who is like 30, used to get all giggly on the internet with missingjmascis, who was at the time a 15 year old high school girl. according to their own public confessions, he used to called her on the phone, call her cute names, and send her cake. this while he was living with his regular girlfriend. yiiiiiikes!!!! hard candyyyyy!!!!!!!!!

5) khchris never apologized to hot eyed bride, but kept making excuses to justify what he had written (& you call can see).

6) khchris is soooooo not cooooooool!!! (but i don't hate him-- cmon-- hate??? why waste good hate on this...)

7) and i have fucking awesome memory :D. and i don't love everybody cos i'm not a fucking hippy, so i'm not going to let the insanos get away with their usual crap, but most people here are pretty cool by me-- most. now let's stop world war III or whatever this nonsense is and laugh at ourselves a little for all this wasted energy.


 


(that's not my butt by the way. mine is a much finer one and the pictures are not free)


Word

!@#$%! 04.09.2006 10:47 PM

yeah and i made quite a few typos :D

finding nobody 04.09.2006 10:49 PM

i'm never mentioned on those things. i guess i'm not clever enough

schizophrenicroom 04.09.2006 10:56 PM

BUTT SEX

Everyneurotic 04.09.2006 10:56 PM

so why pay attention to the retards...i mean the problematic figures?

i don't know, but maybe it's time to break the ignore list, some people beg for it; yet, i can't help but restrain myself from it because people's posts are deliciously stupid...

...it reminds me why people suck

schizo in da house!!!

HaydenAsche 04.09.2006 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
so why pay attention to the retards...i mean the problematic figures?

i don't know, but maybe it's time to break the ignore list, some people beg for it; yet, i can't help but restrain myself from it because people's posts are deliciously stupid...

...it reminds me why people suck


I need to be reminded why I think there are people that don't suck.

schizophrenicroom 04.09.2006 10:59 PM

yo yo every-e.

i rather like the ignore list idea, but i've yet to put it in action.

Everyneurotic 04.09.2006 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom
yo yo every-e.

i rather like the ignore list idea, but i've yet to put it in action.


me too actually, but mental blocking egocentric figures in the board has worked out so far

schizophrenicroom 04.09.2006 11:10 PM

it is much easier.

i find busting a gat is an easy way to settle differences.


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