I guess...because being rich and being beautiful in the literal sense can be a tedious given. Yeah, these attribites could be legit, but what if every single poster named THOSE. How boring would that be.

Oh ok. You're talking specifics. I can do that...

Turn ons (in no particular order):

1. A lengthy body
2. Dark hair (usually long, too, I think)
3. Confidence (cliche, I know, but it does help. I find people tend to be less phony when they don't have anything to prove.)
4. Intelligence/maturity
5. uhhhh LawrenceoftheLabia..?

Offs (in a more particular order):

1. Bad smells (like breath, armpits, etc., ya know)
2. Macho-man attitudes
3. Cowardly behaviour
4. Laziness
5. Avoidable fatty pockets

Here are some things that have tied all the people I've been attracted to together:

Ons:
-Intelligent as fuck
-Cynical/analytic
-A writer of some sort (usually poetry or music with the occasional short story)
-Sense of humor
-Introverted but not necessarily shy/quiet/agoraphobic
-Understands me
-Has a little "asshole" in them
-Sexually open
BONUS: "Weird" fetishes/sexual quirks
BONUS 2: LOVES CATS

Offs
-Stupid
-Typical
-Closed-minded
-Disrespectful
-Super serious


That's a pretty basic outline (which is what this thread calls for, I s'pose) of what I dig.

day-am

It is telling that the serious replies are predominantly women.

I replied seriously that way all of the foxy ladies on here would know where I'm at and maybe hit me up for some lovin.'

sames. maybe women know what they really want earlier than men?

Women are fascists and have poison for blood. Men just want someone who makes the world hurt a little less.

on:
awesome sense of humor. if yr not funny, i'll probably hate you.
moderate scruff.
"artsy" guys. 'specially musicians.
nice guys. not pussy nice, but ... respectful, caring. not assholes.
good taste.

off off off:
moronic macho cavemen.
douchebros/fratboys/yr generic jock.
cockiness. arrogance. confidence, however, is sexy as fuck.
being clingy or possessive.
not even the vaguest sense of style.
being boring.

i dunno, i know what i like/dislike when i see it. but it's hard to rattle it all off like that.

on
1. Good hygiene
2. Great smile/laugh
3. Enjoys interesting/heart-to-heart conversations
4. Open minded
5. Likes to party (drink/blow)

off
1. Hair above the lip/legs/armpits
2. Acne
3. Smokes too much pot/likes to "chill" instead of partying
4. Being rude
5. Shallow

Looking over the replies, people seem to want people with good taste but not with bad taste, confidence but not a lack of confidence, open-mindedness but not close-mindedness, a sense of humor and creativity but not "being boring," self-sufficiency but not clingy, good in bed but not bad in bed, etc, etc, etc.

Personally, I'm turned on by good stuff and turned off by the lack of good stuff, which is bad.

I couldn't list something like this, I'm so fussy that it varies widely whenever I find someone attractive.. there are always different reasons. There is no phoenix love box to fit in to. There are so many things that turn me the fuck on with one person but off if someone else were doing it, you know?
The list of things I find unattractive would be long but boring.. I am a social misfit so whatever.

angry people
stupid people
people with egos
people who do not stop talking
loud people (sometimes).. really just inapropriately loud people. I have these quiet times.. and I need them. or I spaz out or get all :rolleyes: and cunty
people that feel the need to try and make you do things/see things their way rather than being able to accept differences
etc