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SynthethicalY 08.24.2007 12:00 AM

Why do People Oppose Sex Ed?
 
I mean really, we all know kids are having sex. So why not teach them how to protect themselves.

pbradley 08.24.2007 12:02 AM

Because some parents want to tell their children about sex in a closed, comfortable setting instead of a thought-mill environment like public school.

Or because sex is the DEVIL.

SynthethicalY 08.24.2007 12:04 AM

But I think a professional would do a better job than parents.

pbradley 08.24.2007 12:09 AM

Well too bad you're not everyone.

SynthethicalY 08.24.2007 12:10 AM

Yes, if I were the majority, they would also know about queer sex as well.

pbradley 08.24.2007 12:16 AM

I could imagine public school sex ed being more tramatizing for closet homosexuals (there should be a less technical word but less potentially-offensive word than "gay"). Hearing about hetero sex may increase feelings of isolation, particularly in mid western small towns.

I could only hope that parents would be liberal enough to home-teach these kids about hetero sex (for reference) as well as gay sex, diseases, and acceptance.

EDIT: then again, opting them out could increase feelings of isolation I suppose

SynthethicalY 08.24.2007 12:25 AM

I can understand the parents concern of protecting their child. However, they are doing more harm than good. Kids do not know how to protect themselves, and sometimes it is too late when the person knows how to protect themselves.

ZEROpumpkins 08.24.2007 04:02 AM

I think because there are a lot of conservative baby boomer parents.

Alex's Trip 08.24.2007 08:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pbradley
I could imagine public school sex ed being more tramatizing for closet homosexuals (there should be a less technical word but less potentially-offensive word than "gay"). Hearing about hetero sex may increase feelings of isolation, particularly in mid western small towns.

I could only hope that parents would be liberal enough to home-teach these kids about hetero sex (for reference) as well as gay sex, diseases, and acceptance.

EDIT: then again, opting them out could increase feelings of isolation I suppose

Bleh. If my parents tried to teach me safe gay sex while I was still in the closet I think I would have killed myself right there.

SynthethicalY 08.24.2007 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip
Bleh. If my parents tried to teach me safe gay sex while I was still in the closet I think I would have killed myself right there.


I could imagine it, (Nervous Dad): Son, I hhhave, somethiiing to tttalk to you abboout. We-we-well the time is ready for you to-to-to kno-kno-know about se-se-sex.

(Alex Cringes)

Dad: Well, um...um... You see, when a boy your age...see they start having sexual desires...Um...And you may want to mate, when you do-do-do find that partner of yours a man. Remember to wear a condom. I brought a banana and a condom, to illustrate how to put it on.

(Alex dad's demonstrates.)
(Alex Cringes once again.)


Alex's dad: You see a condom can protec-tect you from diseases such as aids, gonorrhea, syphillis, and so on. So whenever you start datine me-men remember to use one. As I have demonstrated with the banana. Do you have any questions?

Alex(embarrassed):No.

Alex's Dad: Ok(exits room.)

floatingslowly 08.24.2007 08:41 AM

if I close my eyes, you can't see me.

tesla69 08.24.2007 08:44 AM

Children need to be fully trained in the use of automatic weapons and explosives before they get to learn the subtleties and pleasures of the erotic life and our society just doesn't respect that.

Danny Himself 08.24.2007 09:07 AM

If you had children, I'd imagine maybe it would make sense.

They grow up so fast. One minute they're playing with Lego and watching The Moomins, then the next they're fucking like bunnies in a most senseless fashion. Not the best thing you want for your kids, especially when you're approaching a minor mid life crisis and your marriage is on the rocks.

atsonicpark 08.24.2007 09:33 AM

they should teach jacking off...

I didn't actually start doing it till I was 16. Wish I'd known sooner. Oh well.. making up for past time, I guess!

FruitLoop 08.24.2007 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by tesla69
Children need to be fully trained in the use of automatic weapons and explosives before they get to learn the subtleties and pleasures of the erotic life and our society just doesn't respect that.


Indeed. They should hand out abstinence rifles instead of rings, which would have the additional benefit of releasing /channeling the sexual tension, and make for a much bolder statement as well.

jon boy 08.24.2007 10:10 AM

i find the same sort of people who oppose sex education dont agree with giving out free condoms but complain about teeneage pregnancy.

!@#$%! 08.24.2007 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by SynthethicalY
I mean really, we all know kids are having sex. So why not teach them how to protect themselves.


because middle america likes to ignore the basic facts of biology and psychology, and treat its young adults as overgrown children with no minds of their own and no responsibilities whatsoever. unless they are poor and black and they commit a crime, then they are tried and sent to jail as adults.

Green_mind 08.24.2007 10:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SynthethicalY
Yes, if I were the majority, they would also know about queer sex as well.


I think if you were the majority, we would all know a little bit too much about queer sex. :P

Rob Instigator 08.24.2007 10:56 AM

sex education is suposed to be about procreation and the way it happens, which is why it is taught in health class. it is not supposed to be a primer for details on how to have sex, gay or otherwise.

people are opposed to it ecause many people , in USA, are of the idea that sex for pleasure is a sin, and that sex is only to be done by people trying to conceive a child.

LifeDistortion 08.24.2007 10:57 AM

 


See where an education gets you?


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