So, yeah...
 

I know it isn't a big deal here, but it is a big deal to me.

I'm gay

I suppose I've known for a while, but I never wanted to accept it. Not that I had a problem with gays, I just couldn't really come to terms with being one. I couldn't deal with the idea of what my friends and family would do, so I just rejected the idea that I was gay, and figured that my attraction to guys was just a phase. But I'm far beyond the possibility of a phase. I've had these feelings for 3 years now and I'm finally starting to accept it.

I know it is cheesy and stupid to come out on a forum, but I got to start somewhere.

Good for you, I suppose. You gotta start somewhere. 'Good luck' coming out elsewhere!

Hey man, good for you.

we love you anyway!

what is it about this forum? haha.

You rock alex. Fight the good fight. Punch the donut round and true.

This forum produces gays like some kind of... gay-factory! Thanks to this forum, I have accepted my own "bisexuality." Which doesn't mean just what you'd exepct it to, as I am attracted to the "gender" and not "sex." Either way, I don't see myself dating a boy in the future, but it's not completely ruled out.

:confused: I laughed. Well, I wouldn't rule out a girl if I liked her. I just haven't met (m)any that I'm attracted to.

I haven't met any guys I'm physically attracted to. (Keyword is met. I'd bone Trent Reznor though, dudes a fox)

Er, something like that. :)

I recently found out I have Asperger's Syndrome. So, um, I don't know.

alex- yes, it's a start. good for you!

umjammer- join the club. i've got most of the signs, and my brother was diagnosed when he was four or five.

From what I've read (back when I was a Vines fan), it is very interesting.

Alex,

Good for you, man! Remember, you can always talk to me.

Hayden

:)

Thanks.

*high-fives Stanley Kubrick* Woo, I'm in the club.

It's not a thing to be bothered about, really.

The only thing that worries me is telling my parents. I won't be doing that for a while. There is a lot of apprehension there.

I can imagine telling YOUR parents would be incredibly difficult. Tell them when you're capable of living on your own or are living on your own. It'll be easier if they have a fit and don't want to speak to you for a while.

best of luck with yr parents.

Keep yr head high, bud!!! Fuck the haters and never forget yr awesomeness!!! Queer Crew 4 lyfe, jigga!!!

Not fair for the female race . coz youre fucken hot .

wow, good luck man!
i guess coming out must be a difficult step to make, but the most important thing is accepting it for yourself.... others will just have to accept you as you are, although i could imagine telling your parents isn't easy.