Never ask a girl you like to get stoned
 

Fuck, bad move, me and this chick, we both really dig one another, but she lives somewhere else. Im a social retard and cant be in large groups or be confident with people i dont know well in person. She lives 600km from me, and i was going to go to her city for a concert this weekend. But she is booked out for saturday, and im booked for sunday.

She wanted me to stay back on monday and hang out with her in the city
Me being the social retard get very nervous and all that shit. So anyway, I think up this idea, just a meer suggestion, that why dont we get stoned later on and itll be fun..........:mad: nope, bad move. im immature now, wow what a turn off she says. And it all goes down hill from there.

that sucks...

parents have always told you, dont smoke weed.

fuck her bullshit.

find a girl who does not mind if you smoke. she does not have to partake herself, but at least she should be cool with whatever you want to do.

Drugs are bad, mmkay?

The last thing we need is perfectly fine girls spoiling themselves.

James Blonde doesn't believe you'll ever meet someone else again.

I second that. If you haven't got common ground, you likely won't want to be with her anyhow. She could have turned you down more diplomatically, anyhow - she could have merely said she isn't into weed, without the petty insult. Damn prude.

*Edit: That second was in response to Rob Instigator. I'm slow.

neither do i james..neither do i.

Thing is she smokes some times too. But it was a baaaaaaaad mooooooove

how old is she? how old are you? (not judging just asking)

Guess it's time to become a lonesome surfer, suggests James Blonde.

Just 'cos someone doesn't want to hang out with stoners, doesn't make them a bad person. Some of us enjoy conversations with lucid people.

both 19. We are the immature 19 though, not the getting out there and doing shit.

Well said.

She does smoke sometimes, she was telling me a story about how she was stoned the other night. I thought maybe seeings as me and her are pretty cool with one another she would be up for it. Its not a big deal in my group of friends, Its just a fun thing to do when bored.

*sigh* ill be alone for ever.

mmm, well i could understand her saying that if she was like 28ish but at 19 i would expect her to be more open to things like that.

Maybe the thing about not wanting to get stoned was just an excuse.

maybe, but i doubt it.

Thing is, i thought up the idea and said 'hey i got an idea" then i stopped and said ,"oh nah dont worry, its really dumb" and "you will get mad, dont worry about it, its a stupid idea", but she pushed it out of me.

On valentines day too.

You should have got her some heart-shaped candies instead. Big smokin' fatties aren't very romantic. At least not in my book.

I have met a thousand million stoners all highly lucid.
I ahve met a thousand million stoners, all burned out and non-lucid.

judge each person individually, stop basing your thoughts on "Just Say No" ad campaigns.

one time a friend and I helped two beautiful girls to jump their car and move it out of the street and as we were leaving they ran up to us and gae us a small box "for being so nice" and in the box was some sweet ganj.

Going out with stoners is never fun for a long period of time,trust me on this.

i dont know how to explain my stonerness. Its a fun family time stoning with me, not the dark scary house with stolen tv stoning

I become a social retard all time I smoke weed. I just stare, unable to even say a word. That's why I only smoke alone.

im a social retard when not stoned. I really didnt want our meet to be a shitty walking around the city, have something to eat and small talk, i wanted a meaningful fun time. an adventure, were we can get close. Im such a douche

Jerry: You know there is always the possibility, that she called an audible.

George: What do you mean?

Jerry: Well she got up to the line of scrimmage, didn’t like the looks of the defense and changed the play.

I can feel you on this--- but I would've shot for the best of both worlds... a joint and a walk around! It gets all wierd but the scenery changes a lot.'


But I wouldn't dwell on it. Seems like hs ecalled it pretty aburbtly- I mean was it really just a shoot down right after you mentioned it?

I was going out with this girl for nearly two years, with roughly 1/3 to a half of it broken up in the middle, and we had our disintegration in december. One because she was in college, and also she was getting unlevel... It seemed like she was relying on me to keep her happpy, and when she realized I thought this she started tipping--- she'd also started to smoke pot and I think that may not've helped exactly. Because if she ever did it with me she'd feel uncomfortable and one time before we broke she had a breakdown that tremors didn't dissappear for a few days. It kind of put me in a bad place because i sometimes thought she was just doing it because I wanted...
in short- pot didn't end us (that'd be too dumb and after-school-special to blame it like that), but it probably didn't help.

If she really loved you wouldn't have cared you smoked the doobies once and a while.
Maybe you should talk to her and try to ask her what the big deal is? Y'know just talk it over.

Unless she is a total straightedge, she has no business calling you immature for your choices. At least then she would be consistent.
I know a few people who drink to excess on a regular basis, yet look down on people who use THC as their recreational substance of choice. Total double standard. If anything, alcohol is far worse in both the ways in which it makes people behave and the long-term damage it can do, yet so many people think it's somehow superior or more acceptable. It's just personal choices; I don't see what the big deal is.

I do think it's funny how society at large (since the aging of the baby boomers) has turned from the "pot is never OK" attitude more toward and attitude of "pot is OK if you're in college or in your early 20s, but not after that."

OK then.

tell her you got some morphine suppositories from Mark Arm and you are just dying to stick them in her third-knuckle deep, you know?

that is ROMANCE

There's something not coming through in the typing in this story. Maybe she heard your 'lets get stoned' as a request for date rape, get her stoned and fuck her. At any rate, Mr Alien, don't knock yourself out over it. Girls at that age are generally interested in assholes. Not much you can do. In high schhol I had this crazy crush ont his girl and was consumed trying to seduce her, finally got a magic kiss from her, 20 years later at the class reunion I find out she was blowing the football team and lost her virginity to the MVP who was literally a real stupid jerk.

I'd like to meet a solvent stoner woman, they rule. What I have no patience for are boozer chicks. Nothing is less attractive to me than a woman where you can smell the booze coming off her. Unless it Keira Knightly.

you should be careful she doesnt turn into another stalker.

She's either uptight or called an audible.
Your pot-smoking didn't fall in line with little miss princess' prince charming dream. The chick probably already has her whole life planned out ahead of time.







Never ask a girl you like to get stoned

Never say "never."
Now, asking a girl you like to do blow is indeed scuzzy, but there's nothing wrong (or there shouldn't be) with asking a girl you like to smoke some buds with you.

If this continues to be a problem for you AA, my advice is to wait for the girls that ask if you want to get stoned or who are looking to get stoned themselves.

I wouldn't ever go out with a stoner. Never. I would, however, go out with someone who smokes weed. The difference is very important.

yeah,

why dont we give a quicky later on ? it will be fun!

haha. why didnt you just said you were joking?
that usually solves things

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this is very true^.

stoners are always tired and want to go home by 10.30.

I col' rock it till the breaka dawn

Yeah, seriously, tolerance is not only something I have for human beings philosophically, I also have quite the tolerance for substances.

Don't you love these people that stereotype all pot-smokers because they themselves have friends with a low constitutions?

I would rather spend ten weeks with stoners than two days with coke heads
or a week with alcoholics.

well.. thats weird.. the only thing i don't get is.. she smokes too doesn't she? you said she was telling you about her night getting high some other time, so why would she think it were "immature" or have such a problem with it if she does it too?

I would be able to understand a little if she hadn't at all.. but if she does.. she could've just said "nah.. i'm good" or whatever.. maybe its just an excuse for something else lol

are you sure you did not ask her to "smoke yr cock?"