Should i be worried?
 

Now i know guys like looking up porn and naked women and that, but this has only been recent and im just not sure what to make of it

but i think my dad has been going on adultfriendfinder.com, lonelycheatingwives.com, seniorfriendfinder.com and looking up women/naked photos in our area, in near by citys.. My dad is married and its all pretty straightforward, but yeh, this just seems really odd...

yeah be worried,he's looking for people to chat up and kidnap and then kill them.

wait until you see the real naked pictures (of other men, that is...)

dont be bothering yrself with what yr Dad looks up online Alien, you drive yer head mad with that shit. Dont be worried, he could be lookin up worse.

The older generation has a much different taste in porn than we do.

Just because he is on those websites doesn't mean he is using them to find women to hook up with. Because those sites still do have porn on them, he could just be going to those sites because he doesn't know how to properly look up porn.

Remember, adults are really dumb about the internet.

Teach your Dad about thumbnail sites and pornotube and he'll probably never go to those other websites again.

this is really what i wanted to say but was basically too stoned, well done Spectral - maybe show him how to delete his temp internet files and clear his history.

he was probably just checking if your mom is in one of those sites... you should be worried about your mom.

we were out for 45 minutes and he was on them again!
what the hell is going on, i want to get into his yahoo e-mail acount, where do i find one of those keyboard tracer things?

I think that looking for porn on the net is most likely a consequence of boredom. Buy a good erotic-sex-book with tips on how to spice up a relationship and give it to your father/mother as a gift and wait for the results.

Another way you could have phrased that is "I was out for 45 minutes and when I got back I checked my Dad's -personal- web browsing, again."

The thing you might be more concerned about isn't that he's looking for porn but that sites like Adult Friend Finder are places where people go to meet sexual partners. Which is a whole other issue.

that is what im concerned about demonrail. thats what im asking if i should be worried about. And foxforce, he is leaving this shit in the address bar, im not hunting for it.

Do you have an idea what exactly you're worried about? You're the only one here with access to context.

I'm sorry but isn't the very fact that you started a thread about it a testament that you ARE worried?

http://www.filetransit.com/download.php?id=21140

It writes a log file of everything typed. Haven't tried it out yet, but I'm pretty sure it's safe; it's from a reliable site.

Sorry to hear about your dad man, that's not cool. I suppose it would be really awkward for you. Does your mom know?

I would love it if I came across someone literally Googling for "naked women pictures".

Are you apologising for being a dick?

Foxforce, im just thinking maybe he is looking for something on the side, he has just recently got a new job and gets flown out every month, so it seems kind of weird that this women seeking is all happening now.

And thanks inhuman for the site, ill give it a go, hopefully its safe.

No i'm not.Fuck off,come back and then......fuck off again!

It will be awkward if you monitor keystrokes and find your dad uses the SY forum. I wonder who he is here. Maybe the girls he's looking for are just Parenthetical or Sun City or Pretty ones who Make Graves.

ok cool i get it your all indy and stuff and act like a prick and be all oo im smart i correct you on shit..awesome, i mean its not the sort of cartoon character id want to be, but hey your choice.

Whaa???Look,fuck off,come back,fuck off again,come back.....and then fuck off one more time.

If by "fuck off" you mean "jerk off a bit till you feel somewhat okay" I've found that to be decent advice. Porkmarras suggesting multiple sessions may be a bit extreme, but may have worked for him. Makes as much sense to me as keystoke monitoring.

Oh really???Well,in that case,you too fuck off,come back......and then fuck off again.

I'm way ahead of you.

Okay i'm back.

Ok,since you're both back........fuck both of you,come back and then i'll fuck you again.How fucking fuck is fucking that?

*bookmarks*


seriously though, do not install a keylogger on your computer! you'll be sorry.

these programs are trojans and WILL report your various passwords back to their "home".

I say just let yr dad get his fap on.

hhmmm its weird if he does it a lot. i mean i could maybe forgive a one off for someone not used to the internet like so many dads are but if its regular then its quite strange.

haha...someone's been watching Charlie Brookers Screenwipe. I've been waiting for a real life situation where I could use that gem.

i find myself being very synical yet strangely enriched after watching charlie brooker.

I feel myself being very cynical before watching Brooker and then smug, vindicated and amused at the same time following viewing of his show.

well yes he does verbalise a lot of what i am unable to and yet feel in everyday life.

haha,you caught me out!Do you too save all the Guardian's Guides where he writes on?Did you watch him on tv last week?

Seriously, why snoop?
If he's doing nothing to "cover his tracks," I would say you're overreacting anyway.
I'm sure we all visit sites out of curiosity/voyeurism/interest in things outside our own sphere, and if people decided to make judgments on us because of that, we would all be upset that people were jumping to conclusions.

I think you need to be more worried about making sure your firewall is up to snuff if pop is looking at sleeze.

Adult Friend Finder - thanks for the tip!

if it was just porn i wouldnt care, but its the fact he is looking up same age women and same location women on a site that is made to hook people up.

Kegmama: noone really talks in our family, we all tend to keep shit to our selves, we cant sit down and have that serious kind of talk shit. just never been able to, i cringe at it *shrugs*

fuck.......im in...i worked out his password first go..and im in his yahoo account that has all the passwords to his friendsearcher accounts..do i look?

No you should not.
Whether or not you have cause for concern, you are snooping in someone else's private business. If anything, this is between your parents to work out and painful as it may be, you have no business doing what you are doing.

but its not just their lives its mine to

It is their relationship first and foremost.
No matter what you are doing online, I'm pretty sure you would resent any intrusion into your own password-protected activities, no matter how "justifiably concerned" your parents might be about something you are into.
Give him the same level of dignity at least, if you have any shred of respect for him. If things fall apart you will know soon enough anyway.

If you're all that concerned, you could just do the decent thing and confront him directly face-to-face rather than sneaking through his virtual sock-drawer.