How long have you known your sexual preference?
 

I think I've known that I was heterosexual all my life. Sometimes I questioned it growing up. But it has always just seemed to make sense. My earliest sexual thought that I can remember was in 1st grade I imagined what this one girl would like naked. I considered her prettiest in my class. I wasn't the type of kid who had girlfriends when I was little though. I played with the boys because they shared my common interests (violence.)

Its odd though. My first best friend turned out to be gay. I was always sort of a reject. I thought he was cool, but I guess he was probably a reject too and that is why we were friends.

I suppose I've always known I was straight too. I never really thought about it or doubted it, ever. Boys + Girls = Babies. That's the math behind it and thats just what made sense to me. Never looked at guys as anything but friends.

since i was 3 i suppose, though i didn't have the concept of "heterosexual" in my mind for fucks sakes. that was my first heavy crush -- on a kindergarten girl in my class. she was so cute. i still remember her name (i'm not telling). the following year in preschool there was another girl--- brown hair, ponytail, a year older than me, way out of my league! but so lovely, i remember i liked looking at her legs a lot.

anyway, who gives a shit about my biography. fuck you all.

i have been boy crazy for as long as i can remember. i had rockstar crushes really early.. like age 4 or 5? and even when i was 6... i'd walk by my crush's house, chase him on the playground to kiss him and even throw love notes in his desk.

so always.

Always been straight.

That being said, i wouldn't pass up on a relationship with a girl if i found myself being attracted to her, but that has never happened to me.

I always liked girls.

i guess since i was like 5

I think I lost my virginity before sexuality had dawned upon me... I was a horny bastard, but it wasn't directed towards girls per se. Sexuality is a different kettle of fish to affections, methinks, and I had objects of affections, but that wasn't ever on a gender basis so much as person-to-person.

I knew what gays were pretty early on. Because I was a big Queen fan and I was really sad when Freddy Mercury died. At first I thought he got AIDS from a woman, but someone was like "no he got it from a man."

And I was confused by how two men could have sex for years.

Also, when I was really little, one of my oldest sister had several friends who were openly gay. I just knew that meant he liked boys instead of girls and that it meant he acted a bit different too.

I was like 12 or 13 when my female schoolmates started growing breasts and I knew THIS WAS IT.

That made me laugh for some reason.

God that was a wonderful age. 7th grade. The first girl who had breasts had a locker right next to mine. I was in a daze a lot. But I had been sexually aroused by female parts for a few years before that. It was just that none of the girls my age had developed a female figure yet.

I'm still confused a bit...

I mostly like chicks but I find that my best friend (a dude) is more attractive than my girlfriend is..

It was the first time I got a big load blown on my face.

It was lucky you realised you were gay at that point. Could've been a very awkward situation otherwise.

Very true. I was a tad skeptical about his cock in my ass but after he came on my face, I knew I was in for the LONG haul.

i remember having an argument with a classmate when i was around 13 about the questionable logic of claiming that getting a blowjob from a guy is any different than getting one from a chick. i was still a virgin, so this was all speculation of course. but i was saying that while a pussy is clearly different than an asshole, a mouth is a mouth.

THE SMELL. THE SMELL.

and the visuals. and the beard.

but if you enjoy the smell and the visuals and the body hair patterns of both genders then you have more choice and will never be bored. lucky.

me on the other hand i went to high school in a boys school and it was HELL. the motherfuckers stank and were ugly. to me i mean, men are ugly. can't stand men. but sweet sweet sweet girl smell, on the other hand--yummmmmeeeee.

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well i dont "hate" men. i have male friends. they are just... unappetizing.

Well, I've liked girls, and therefore been straight, as long as I can remember. Actually, in 1st-3rd grade or so, I played with way more girls than guys.

I never had any of that latency period bullshit.

I knew once Rob started posting pictures in the pictures of hot girls thread.

I had first date before I went to elementary. I was five or something. It was quite serious relationship. I even had lunch with her parents. But we broke up in a week.

i knew i was straight when i found out my dad had the playboy channel illegally and i would jerk off for hours when no one was home. i was about 13. i didn't even know what homosexuality was until about 7th or 8th grade.

i do remember having a crush on a girl named brooke in 1st grade. she would spin around in her skirt and i would see her panties. if i could've gotten a boner at that age i would have had a massive one.

What did you break up over? Could you not agree on what teenage mutant ninja turtle was the coolest?

i dont think i still 100% know, i know i dig girls but i may also dig dudes
dont really care, ill just go for what ever im attracted to.

Ha. Same here.

i remember i liked a kid named nacho when i was in kindergarten, but dated one called francisco anyway.
i know i like boys
but i'm too scared of starting something with any of them

i suck.
and yeah, i consider it a frustration, in a way.
to be 19 and having not had anything with anyone yet.
i guess i'll end up married with children with the first guy i go out with

which might be...
sad?

yeha, sad.

did he grow up to be the guy on the left?




i was around 18 or 19 when i lost my virginity with a guy... 22 with a woman...

ohh it was the summer and the wind was fresh when i met her...

the fuck do i know when i said "yep, i'm straight", i wasn't into having girlfriends in grade school...in fact i thought it was lame as shit to greet the opposite sex with a kiss in the cheek, i and some of my friends were dead against that shit. still, i loved picking on girls from first grade to 6th.

i had questioned my sexuality back when i was suicidal but i simply didn't like guys. so, some years at least.

^^^^^ (still doesn't know.) :D

I wish. She did not like Ninja Turtles at all, actually! She broke my heart back then. :(

Up to seventeen I finally admit it to myself, that yup I'm a poof. Before I was in denial.

As of now I'm straight. Can't guarantee anything in the future though.

Since I first saw a fit naked dude.

hahaha no, i bet he looks better than that at this moment (i haven't seen him since 1996. so imagine...)

hahaha like, right in front of you? or in the tv?

I was around 5-6, and I was enamored of a girl my age, brunette of course, named Rosanna.

It all became clear to me when I started mortuary work.