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What I considered a really good mate went on to shag someone I have been seeing for a while. It's not often that I get so pissed off that I want to punch someone in the face, but this is so much the case. I probably wont, but it still makes me so very sad. Rant over. Sorry to bore the shit out of you with this, I just needed to get it off my chest.

Bad luck man. People have been having some rotton times recently.

Thanks for the kind words, both of you. I am so not sure how to take this at all, the feeling of disappontment has made my day so miserable already. I don't like feeling miserable.

Although I'd like to, I can't really offer any advice that could be considered, as I'm only 16. I have yet to have an asshole friend screw me over for a girl.

eh... if you were anything like me you would end punching in the face something that as nothing to do with it.
yea... i'm that good.


but still, go punch someone.

life can be cruel, betrayal hides everywhere. hang on tight man, karma will get them what they deserve...

yeah, I'm good at that too.

word of wisdom: don't pick the one with braces.

sorry to hear this pork. if you want, jico and I can punch the guy for you.

Thank you, I really appreciate that. I am trying to stay at work till it's time to go home 'cause I can't help but feeling sad and just want to go home and sleep.

I'm not even joking.

I really would punch the guy.

think of the joy you would feel at watching him drop like a sack o' rocks.

however, it might take awhile for me to get to UK, train jico at ninjitsu and then find the guy.

would you settle on a hex instead? I'm good at hexes.

Sorry to hear that. Your buddy is an asshole.

what a fucking load of shit man. sorry to hear it.
what does one do in such a situation?

:mad:

fucking people.

sorry, sarramkrop. that's awful.

man, that sucks; i know, i've been in that situation.

only word of advise i can give you is stay away from rotten people, they are not fucking worth it. at least they've shown their true colors now.

agreed.

however, it's often hard to tell who's rotten and who's not until they fuck you over!

the human race is a bunch of scheming twats imo.

You people are the sweetest, thank you so much, you made sitting in an office in an awful mood so much more bearable. I'll probably end up forgiving both, even if it's too hard to forget. I find it really hard to swallow something like this and keep my head up because there's nothing worse than feeling like you can't trust someone you had so much faith in. I don't know, I like to think that I am a really strong person, but obviously I'm not and the whole thing shook me at the very foundations.

I don't think that feeling bad over being betrayed is a sign of weakness.

you willingness to already forgive is certainly a sign of strength however.

but what do I know? I'm not even a real person.

beep.

forgive? pssh. fuck that.

Try not to drag the situation out, whatever you need to do to get through the initial badness do it, then see where you want to go with the situation.
Ive not seen the particular scenario youve described before but i had something similar a year or so ago and that was the best course of action for me.

pics or it didn't happen

What bugs me is the fact that my friend is 24, so my rational side is trying to tell me that perhaps he's just a kid and didn't realize what he was doing. Mr Wanker on the other hand is 35, so he most definitely knew what he was doing and didn't think twice about the gravity of the whole situation. This is such a crap thing, it's the whole scenario that I've seen between a lot of gay guys over and over again, that typical ''Oh, it's just a shag, my boyfriend will understand''. It's no wonder we get such a bad reputation sometimes.

racism towards green people disgust me.


anyway ,
the last time i got into something like this i ended calling my sister and her husband something which english equivalent would be like:
fucking shitty clowns, you fucking shitty clowns, etc... !@#!
at first they weren't quite sure, but they thought i was drunk, but when i came to ask for help they got quite shocked about it.

lesson: pretend you were drunk

I'm confused. are you upset that yr sister was sleeping with her husband instead of you?

that's not betrayal, you incestuous fuck.

mmm, joking...
but right.

i remember thinking of them fucking and being a bit upset about it.

one of the parts in my situation, i ended up forgiving her and we're still "friends", mainly because our relationship was not meant to last and well yeah it ended up shitty in a worst case scenario but it was bound to happen, and i still like her as a person. so i understand your thoughts about forgiving.

and well, 24 or 35, who difficult is to understand that fucking a friend while you're seeing somebody is going to hurt that somebody? seems to me both are mr wankers, although they might or mightn't be conscious wankers.

just get this out of your system and move on.

I am sorry to hear that porky. Come to L.A. I'll shag with you. No, I am sorry, about that comment. However, if it helps, any guy gives up on you is not worth it. No matter the age, your friend should have known better. Your Boyfriend is a cunt for doing this. You are better off without them.

Thank you too. It's his loss, not mine.

old story, people ruining a great thing by sampling forbidden love that seems greater in the short run.
people get what's coming to them. you'll see.

Sorry to hear that they did that, what a couple of arseholes. I wouldn't just blame one of them though, they're both equally to blame, and yeah I'd say to learn from this and realise who your real friends are.

Sorry to hear that, man.....that kind of shit drives me up the wall.

Honestly, I have very little interest in "casual relationships." It's pretty much all or none for me.

about the whole "forgiveness" thing, I have a few things to drop on the matter...

in my experience it's not even a "forgive 'em" matte ror not, it's much more how hard it is to cope with the thought that persons you considered to be honest to you showed up how fucked up things really are in the first place.

with my bandmates going ape from day one to 2 in zero seconds and leaving me after all of the sacrifices I made to make ends meet and get the $$$ to record the album, I really am done with the whole social thing. I mean - for sure, there's nice people out there but I realized you can't fall in love with all the people you meet and bond them forever.

I've spent a year thinking I found the best friends in life and to think about it it now, it's just a grief and I don't really hold grudges, I'm just aggraveted for the fact that I thought I had someone special close to me.

So even if I am not pissed off about it, I can't say I'd punch them in their faces. Much better to stay away from them and never forget what happened - the good memories and the bad.

my 2 cents...

I just feel sad and helplesss and pathetic. All the time.

its a sad world tonite.

Shit! Sorry to hear that, mate.

I hate it when people let you down (obviously), but especially when it's from people who should not be doing such (obvious also?).

buck up lil' camper. it's them not you.

sorry to hear porks. that really sucks.

i think you'd feel a lot more energized if you managed to throw away your rational side and break a few chairs on the backs of the culprits-- then forgiveness and spiritual rebirth would come of their own accord.

don't let too much time pass or swift retribution will become bitterness & resentment. i mean, make those bitches pay for fucking with your heart in such a manner. then let go.

just saying.

I love you. Every single tear is one of you. I mean it.

this is true!

Sorry to hear that shit man....

lift up yr spirits Pork man... as we in the island use to say, chi sinci cravvinti in sa bassa!!!