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✌➬ 03.19.2008 02:08 AM

How Do You Know When It's Over?
 
Is it the lack of emotions?
The common ground not being there anymore?
Feeling distant?
Does anyone know?

Cantankerous 03.19.2008 02:09 AM

when they stab you three times in the chest i'm pretty sure it's safe to say you're through.

acousticrock87 03.19.2008 02:18 AM

When one of you says it's over and doesn't come back.

Until then, it's all a guess. But you usually have a gut-feeling that's pretty close to right. It's different for everyone. Good luck with it, though.

!@#$%! 03.19.2008 02:23 AM

lesbians never break up

ALIEN ANAL 03.19.2008 02:23 AM

generally when the condom starts feeling loose

atsonicpark 03.19.2008 02:29 AM

All of the above.

✌➬ 03.19.2008 02:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by atsonicpark
All of the above.



Even this one?

Quote:

Originally Posted by !@#$%!
lesbians never break up


cryptowonderdruginvogue 03.19.2008 02:58 AM

many ways

_slavo_ 03.19.2008 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Nefeli
i guess you are lucky if the sex isnt that great anymore, because otherwise that might again confuse you.


the older I get, the more I get the feeling that sex is not that important part of a relationship...am I wrong?

pbradley 03.19.2008 04:49 AM

"The idea of having sex with you makes me vomit in my mouth a little."

max 03.19.2008 05:11 AM

^ agreed with the above.

sex is mos def overrated, but also a good feeling that can't be easily replaced. a mix of knowledge of the significant other together with the right amount of passion can generate wonders.

and children too (if it's male vs. female), so stick to the condoms.

Cantankerous 03.19.2008 05:15 AM

SEX IS NOT OVERRATED
yall is some crazy fuckers

and birth control ftw. condoms are for dick s(pun intended)

pbradley 03.19.2008 06:48 AM

If future, older Cantank could talk to present, younger Cantank, what would she say... hmm...

I know my future self would tell me to go to sleep already.

uhler 03.19.2008 07:50 AM

you kind of get a gut feeling about it. at least that's what i get. i can tell because the other starts to get more distant and not so interested in hanging out or doing stuff with you. then again, sometimes i just get it out of nowhere.

floatingslowly 03.19.2008 08:10 AM

I'm sorry, all I can think of is Zzyxx Rd and sparkle pony unicorns.

I don't think that this helps. :(

pantophobia 03.19.2008 09:11 AM

when you can't find your way home

when everything is blind and deaf

when you're staggering around waiting for someone to make the call

that's when you know the end is near

max 03.19.2008 09:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pantophobia
when you can't find your way home

when everything is blind and deaf

when you're staggering around waiting for someone to make the call

that's when you know the end is near


yes.

Crumb's Crunchy Delights 03.19.2008 09:26 AM

max knows

he the man

val-holla-ing 03.19.2008 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by _slavo_
the older I get, the more I get the feeling that sex is not that important part of a relationship...am I wrong?


i would disagree for the simple fact that this doesn't hold true for good, meaningful sex. there's ALWAYS a place for that. casual sex on the other hand, is getting stale and a bit taxing as i get older (which is why i've stopped drinking so much and started avoiding situations that would compromise the integrity of my balls).

val-holla-ing 03.19.2008 10:46 AM

i'd be hesitant to use the word "over." things tend to be way less finite than we'd like to imagine them. but generally, it's time to wash your hands of it when it gets to a point when time and emotion are being wasted or it's completely one-sided or just not progressing.

mangajunky 03.19.2008 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pantophobia
when you can't find your way home

when everything is blind and deaf

when you're staggering around waiting for someone to make the call

that's when you know the end is near


well-put.
Sex is not as important as passion. Appearance isn't always the most important thing...but there has to be passion. For me sex and passion usually go hand in hand, but that's not the same for all people.

krastian 03.19.2008 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
lesbians never break up

Ha ha ha ha, well done, sir.

uhler 03.19.2008 02:10 PM

well i just got off the phone from the girl i've been taking it slow with and she said she wants to call me back later to talk to me about something. i think i know what this means and i know it not going to be good for me.

val-holla-ing 03.19.2008 02:12 PM

whatever the outcome, you'll be fine. you're moving to new york soon and if y'all are still talking at that point, it'll be an adventure. if not, you'll be surrounded by more beautiful women than possibly imaginable ALL THE TIME, so i'm sure you'll find something equal or greater.

uhler 03.19.2008 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by val-holla-ing
whatever the outcome, you'll be fine. you're moving to new york soon and if y'all are still talking at that point, it'll be an adventure. if not, you'll be surrounded by more beautiful women than possibly imaginable ALL THE TIME, so i'm sure you'll find something equal or greater.


thanks. yeah that is true and you never know when i move to nyc. it's just that i haven't been in a relationship in two years and i didn't really want to be in one until her.

i just wish she would just call now because waiting around sucks.

SuchFriendsAreDangerous 03.19.2008 02:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ✌➬
Is it the lack of emotions?
The common ground not being there anymore?
Feeling distant?
Does anyone know?


 

Savage Clone 03.19.2008 03:28 PM

Sex is huge.
And I say that having slept with the same person for two decades.

Lurker 03.19.2008 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by SuchFriendsAreDangerous
 




What the fuck? Don't put that shit on here.

pantophobia 03.19.2008 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mangajunky
well-put.
Sex is not as important as passion. Appearance isn't always the most important thing...but there has to be passion. For me sex and passion usually go hand in hand, but that's not the same for all people.


the words are very universal, so much so in fact that the actual intent has nothing to do with something like sex, or anything of that nature, but is more of a relationship lost in a different way

SuchFriendsAreDangerous 03.19.2008 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Lurker
What the fuck? Don't put that shit on here.


if it is not brutally obvious that I am joking, either for the fact that this thread seems to be unrelated to suicide, and further, that the context of my usualy demeanor here lets you know the sarcasm, then I humbly and self-effacingly apologize. however, where were you on my shameless post on the Kurt Cobain Converse thread? even I thought that I went too far with that one..
http://www.sonicyouth.com/gossip/showthread.php?t=20521

✌➬ 03.19.2008 05:57 PM

Is not that I don't love him, I just feel I am moving beyond him. I still love him, but I think I like him more of a friend, however, I know once we break up I will lose a close friend, that I have known for almost two years.

Lurker 03.19.2008 05:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SuchFriendsAreDangerous
if it is not brutally obvious that I am joking, either for the fact that this thread seems to be unrelated to suicide, and further, that the context of my usualy demeanor here lets you know the sarcasm, then I humbly and self-effacingly apologize. however, where were you on my shameless post on the Kurt Cobain Converse thread? even I thought that I went too far with that one..
http://www.sonicyouth.com/gossip/showthread.php?t=20521


Fair enough.

SuchFriendsAreDangerous 03.19.2008 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Lurker
Fair enough.


amasaganelo! [thank you]

Cantankerous 03.19.2008 06:14 PM

when morrissey tells you it is

schizophrenicroom 03.19.2008 07:06 PM

when your mother shows more affection towards your significant other than you do

!@#$%! 03.19.2008 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom
when your mother shows more affection towards your significant other than you do


*snort*

heeee heeeeee

ALIEN ANAL 03.19.2008 08:17 PM

i dont think sex is a major thing at all
i barely have sex with my gf and am having a great time with her and feel for her so much.

HaydenAsche 03.19.2008 09:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cantankerous
SEX IS NOT OVERRATED
yall is some crazy fuckers

and birth control ftw. condoms are for dick s(pun intended)


Word. Sex is fucking great.

HaydenAsche 03.19.2008 09:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Savage Clone
Sex is huge.
And I say that having slept with the same person for two decades.


I'm huge too, baby. Let's make love.

!@#$%! 03.19.2008 10:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ALIEN ANAL
i dont think sex is a major thing at all
i barely have sex with my gf and am having a great time with her and feel for her so much.


yes, but-- is she? :p


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