spasmless orgasm
 

Hi!

Have any of you ever had a period of time where all your orgasms came out muffled, as in you went through the motions until you were just about to explode and then....the feelings just evaporate like a candle being blown out, total anti-climax, but you feel yourself physically cumming (guys gizzing, girls muscles tightening etc). Fucking frustrating as all hell, I feel like I'm getting ripped off.

IF so, how did you break yourself out of it? Is it emotional, related to external life issues, or just a physical thing?

Halp!

try playing easy listening music next time. that or SYR8. you choose.

make sure you're listening to paul simon when you blow your load.

I've tried Bon Jovi, I've tried Marvin Gaye. I've tried to imagine nicolas cage and keanu reeves DP'ing me while russell crowe watches. Nothing helps.

Someone relating might!

isn't it because you're worrying about the rent?

or lol
you feel like the other person does not DESERVE it?

or
you feel like you don't deserve it.

No...thats not it. Is that what it was for you? It just...disappeared.

you should not focus on orgasm and instead just focus on enjoying it.

i think that happens to anyone but it'd surely be annoying to go through a period of it.

but do you girls have that thing, when you feel like the other person does not deserve it? yeah cunt keep trying.

i mean i thought subconsciously tht could be it.

i have no idea what im talking bout actually im sorry i cant help.

Okay, yes, but eventually when those culmination feelings arrive, but it doesnt crest, it leaves a distinct missing mark feeling. You know? No? Your pussy is having an orgasm and you arent. This is a problem that I'd love to fix.

Sonofabitch no! I was relying on you two!

Oh hell yeah, I've definitely withheld on account of the partner. But this isnt it, I'm talking about masturbation, fine plastics and smooth vibrations.

im sorry.
im sure SHE can help:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxXES...eature=related

HAHAHA oh my god, I totally forgot about sue johanson!!! Dont you hail from the UK? I love that you've come across her!! I spent my teens watching her show at 11. I once called when I was 15 because of how it still hurt months later after losing my virginity but was denied by the switchlady.

I really should call her, actually.

fucking switchlady.

but i think she's a bit homophobic isn't she?

whenever a boy says no sue it's my boyfriend she goes like OH OK.

I liked it when somebody called about anal beads and she was like
why would you wanna do that? don't do that.

3000 for you, knox.

Really? are you SURE?!? heh, never noticed that. It would be sorta out of place for her to be that way, especially in toronto, I dont recall that at all.

Haha, anal beads. Someone at a sex shop lured me away from them actually, and I'm glad, as she explained how nasty the string would get since you cant really clean it properly. Rubber is the way to go.

ok im sue. you call i say hello alteredcourse what seems to be the problem?

you tell me.

i say don't worry about it, just don't worry about it.

it's only natural we go through periods.

you're happy and i say something about condoms.

but i gotta confess when i read the title of the thread i thought:

i hope thats not a band.

No no, no band. I just wanted to have a title that would sort of roll off the tongue (and into my pussy, causing convulsions and a full body spasm into the ocean that is a nice satisfying cum-spree.)

This period has lasted about three years, so...yeah. I'm kind of sick of it.

I think I'm going to take my pussy on vacation. Just me and her. And whatever crawls by.

How? I dont do shotguns.

No...god. Don't embarrass me. I cant deepthroat.

I need you.

My mind wont ride the waves of juice coming out of my pussy no matter how much I try to let go of it.

Heres the thing, no, two things :

I said earlier, in response to satans reply of enjoying the journey, that that was all fine and good. The thing is, is that "whats fine and good" is really just me jacking off. I've never been able to cum with a man. That is partially to due with knox's withholding idea(believe me, they wouldnt have gotten me there anyway), and partly to do with pure effort but not getting there. That has been okay with me though, this is something I let go of long ago. As long as I can swim in the pleasures on my own, thats fine. But all is not fine now. And really, I dont want it to be fine. I still want to try my damnest to cross my legs behind someones neck and damn a diver to death in pleasuring me, and you know, to be on even terms when it comes to fucking EACHOTHERS brains out. Equal splatter.

Yes, I know whats its like to not blink once you've thought of it. It's like catching someones eye on the train, I look away but have to think about not using my eyes, like they've been hurt or something.

I would love to spend a night with you, or a few, or you know, depending on whether you have sandwiches and beer around or not, whatever.

Yes, Yes! I'm not used to a certain code, I'd been pleasantly tricked into slow and intrusive anal that way, bless him, the back-door sneak is just the right technique. (let that be a lyric.)

Sometimes nothing changes as well, sure.

We are further from sandwich distance from eachother as possible. Isnt that some balls?

I do have this work opportunity this fall that might send me eastward, if so, I'll be bringing some leather gloves to press your buzzer with.

[quote=alteredcourse]Hi!

Have any of you ever had a period of time where all your orgasms came out muffled, as in you went through the motions until you were just about to explode and then....the feelings just evaporate like a candle being blown out, total anti-climax, but you feel yourself physically cumming .../quote]

this has only happened while masturbating...it's quite depressing when you can't even impress yourself...

I've experienced this thing, three or four times in my life. You cum but you don't have an orgasm. Weird.

just stop sucking at masturbating. but seriously, perhaps you get distracted by something weighing heavily on your mind. solution: stop giving a FUCK.

i want amerkiangod & alteredcourse to make an educational video/documentary.

i've never had this, but try relaxing, have a break from your usual routine, maybe stop trying for a while until you're just really horny...

I'm sorry, but all of mine are like nuclear explosions.

ps: meds.

Skeet skeet skeet ( '_' )

is this what you think about when you don't have a real orgasm?

I think you needs to have your prostate checked man.

enlarged prostate glands will cause the symptoms you mention

have you posted this on yahoo answers?

But I'm a girl!

I've researched on the internet here and there ploesj, and nothing too helpful ever comes up. There are rumblings of an as yet unnamed orgasm disorder or sexual anhedonia, but no real information offered.

Yeah, its frustrating as hell! We're talking a few YEARS here, so I feel like I've approached it in every way possible (relaxing, not caring if I cum, new vibrators).

Sometimes I think I should try new partners and find deeper levels of sexual pleasure with them, I know I hadnt came with another person before all this, but maybe that would just be good for me...

years?! hire a male prostitute and have him ram the fuck outta you. if that doesn't work....then I have no idea.

ahhh,

oh well

could be a lot of things. diet, a nutritional thing. could be unresolved issues keeping yr mind from "letting go"

or cuold be you just need a better shaped "partner"