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Tokolosh 10.23.2006 06:21 AM

Were you ever bullied at school?
 
I was once tormented by a very nasty guy in my class for months on end.
He would tease me in front of everyone by saying horrible things, gang up with his buddies and hit me for nothing,
lock me up in a classroom after school or just terrorise me in general.

One day, we were all sitting in class waiting for the teacher, and he called my mother a trashed out good for nothing whore,
while chewing on a plastic 30cm ruler. I walked up to him, and with one quick swift move, shoved the ruler down his throat... literally.
He and his gang left me in peace after that, and never got cocky again.
Oh, and before I forget... I landed up sleeping with his gorgeous sister a year later. :p

You?

jon boy 10.23.2006 06:33 AM

sounds like sweet revenge toko.

yeah i was bullied generally because i didnt agree with everything that the others said. a few guys would lock me in a storeroom and beat the shit out of me until one day i kicked their asses after one of them decided to steal my lunch and try and hit me in the head with a chair and they left me alone afterwards. one of them still lives with his mum and he's nearly 30 from what i hear. another is unemployed and severely depressed. ce la vie.

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 06:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Nefeli
hehe did he found out about you and his sister?


Yes, he was sitting in the livingroom watching tv, while we hmmm... you know?

screamingskull 10.23.2006 07:01 AM

sometimes, never physically though.

_slavo_ 10.23.2006 07:05 AM

No, I wasn't. At elementary school I was too tall and fat that noone was really taking the risk to bully me and on highschool and university I got became this kind of foul-mouthed guy that talks back, so there wasn't really a chance.

Anyway, I am experience sort of mobbing situation at present job, which is not really good.

whorefrost 10.23.2006 07:18 AM

a wee bit

king_buzzo 10.23.2006 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by whorefrost
a wee bit


same. like when i was smaller i was bullied by bigger kids

Danny Himself 10.23.2006 07:21 AM

I'll usually get the odd sly comment or childish name-calling, but I am pretty good with comebacks. And by that I mean that I am really harsh. Some kid shouted something at me about my hair the other day, and the whole class went silent, and I just said 'I can change my hair, but you're always gonna have your UGLY FUCKING FACE'. Which is true, because he is very ugly. Everybody laughed at him.

I have a small amount of cred at school anyway.

Inhuman 10.23.2006 07:26 AM

haha, nice tokolosh

I was bullied a bit, I was more of the quiet person that people ignored and I really didn't mind. There was one time in grade 8 when I was at the locker bay beside the bully, and the girl I liked at the time. The bully started making fun of me, and started with a few mother jokes and kept telling me to shut up whenever I talked. I felt I really needed to defend myself since the girl was there. He was holding an open pencil case in his hands so I went to kick him in the stomache, but instead hit the pencil case and it broke in two and he had about 25 markers to clean up. He silently picked them up without saying anything, then walked away. Interesting how they work, really. All you have to do is stand up to yourself and they leave you alone.

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 07:38 AM

Bullies are generally found in groups that they themselves terrorise and control. The way to deal with these thugs, is to go for the one with the biggest mouth. The leader that is. If you cut of the head, the body will die.
They tend to be cowards, when they're alone.
I used to hate fighting, but sometimes there was only one way to deal with it.

Danny Himself 10.23.2006 07:39 AM

You've got it all wrong, fuckface.

Name-calling is the best way to go. If you can run fast.

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 07:41 AM

Excuse me?

Danny Himself 10.23.2006 07:44 AM

You heard me, ugly. Cram it.

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 07:45 AM

Ha! You'd better take that ruler out of your mouth, before you plan to insult me kiddo. ;)

Danny Himself 10.23.2006 07:48 AM

*removes ruler*

Not so fucking tough now are you, you fucking piece of fucking shit?

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 07:53 AM

 

I've got friends in Liverpool that fully support me.... if you catch my drift.

Danny Himself 10.23.2006 08:01 AM

 


Let's rumble.

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 08:25 AM

 

*Hesitates* Should we wait till these gits leave, or gang up on them?

HaydenAsche 10.23.2006 08:28 AM

I could kick both of your gang's ass with one hand behind my back.

Yes, I said it, cunts.

Inhuman 10.23.2006 08:33 AM

Anthony, bullied at school
Get your own back now you are cool
Or are you scared you're bunking off though you're a toff (?)
It's all gone wrong again, you've got Double Maths

But the teacher's got no control
The boys all run riot
"You all stay quiet or you will die"

Tony, the back of the gym
Smoke another one, your chances are slim,
'Cause here they come again
And they got you on the ground
You're tasting blood again
At least it's your own

When will you realise it doesn't pay
To be smarter than teachers, smarter than most boys
"Shut your mouth, start kicking the football"
Bang on the teeth you are off for a week, boy (?)

You may as well take it in the guts, it could get worse
Just take it in the guts, it could get worse
Just take it in the guts, it could get worse
Just take it in the guts, it could get worse

Oh but hey, you'll soon be old enough to leave them all
And without a notion of a care
You'll leave two fingers in the air
To linger there

Tony, you're a bit of a mess
Melted Tolberone under your dress
But if the kids could see you they would pass you right by
Your blue mascara's running over your eye

Why don't you realise it doesn't pay
To be smarter than teachers, smarter than most boys
"Shut your mouth, start kicking the football"
Bang on the teeth you were off for a week boy (?)

They call you Lord Anthony but hey, it could be worse
Lord Anthony but hey, it could be worse
Lord Anthony but hey, it could be worse
Lord Anthony but hey, it kind of suits you anyway

You'll soon be old enough to leave them there
Without a notion of a care
You'll leave two fingers in the air
To linger there

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 08:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HaydenAsche
I could kick both of your gang's ass with one hand behind my back.

Yes, I said it, cunts.


No problem! See you on the cricket pitch... 3 o'clock. You better be there! and don't even think about bringing your friends or weapons. :cool:

porkmarras 10.23.2006 08:39 AM

I used to get buggered quite a lot in school.

HaydenAsche 10.23.2006 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tokolosh
No problem! See you on the cricket pitch... 3 o'clock. You better be there! Don't even think about bringing your friends or weapons. :cool:


I hope we aren't playing cricket. I meant I could kick your ass in a completely non-metaphorical way.

sonicl 10.23.2006 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by porkmarras
I used to get buggered quite a lot in school.

And you thought you could get away from that by moving to London, where every second person was educated at Eton?

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 08:42 AM

Who mentioned cricket! That's for wusses. I'm talking happy slapping boyo!
Pork, nows your chance to fight back. Hayden won't get away with it this time.

Ps: I hope Hip Priest doesn't read this, 'cause he'll be waiting for me outside the school gate this afternoon, for talking bad about the cricket.

HaydenAsche 10.23.2006 08:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tokolosh
Who mentioned cricket! That's for wusses. I'm talking happy slapping boyo!
Pork, nows your chance to fight back. Hayden won't get away with it this time.


I only make love not war with porkmarras. He's far too goodlooking to fight.

Now, you on the otherhand, you have to wear a mask to cover your dreadful looks. You'll be easy to take out.

porkmarras 10.23.2006 08:45 AM

Oh but i have enjoyed every single minute of it.

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by HaydenAsche
Now, you on the otherhand, you have to wear a mask to cover your dreadful looks. You'll be easy to take out.


 

Not if I wear the complete outfit that goes with that mask, and bring along two thugs!?

HaydenAsche 10.23.2006 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Tokolosh
 

Not if I wear the outfit that goes with that mask, and bring along two thugs!


Oh, please. You look like a sissy.

Tokolosh 10.23.2006 08:54 AM

Try saying that to my face, when I start swinging my battle axe, will ya?

Savage Clone 10.23.2006 09:43 AM

I was bullied a lot for many years.
Face smashed into the locker from behind when I wasn't looking, garbage thrown at me in the lunchroom, that sort of thing.
Once I was even beaten up in front of the entire lunch crowd (several hundred people) with all my friends right there. None of them lifted a finger to help me either. Thanks, guys!
I had made fun of the guy the previous day in class for saying something really stupid and made everyone laugh. He wasn't too happy about it, apparently. We were both suspended. Funny thing was, I didn't even hit him back (though every instinct I had was screaming "KILL KILL," I was raised by pacifist hippies and just tried my best to keep him off me). I was suspended for being "involved in a fight" and "provoking him." I never understood why this guy and all his friends could physically abuse me on a near-daily basis and not "provoke" me into fighting, but my mere words could "provoke" him into violence over 24 hours later.

I pretty much gave up on pacifism after that. I could have saved my own dignity and satisfied my urge to pummel the guy and wound up with exactly the same result. Had I known I would be suspended either way, I surely would have behaved differently.

HaydenAsche 10.23.2006 09:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Savage Clone
I was bullied a lot for many years.
Face smashed into the locker from behind when I wasn't looking, garbage thrown at me in the lunchroom, that sort of thing.
Once I was even beaten up in front of the entire lunch crowd (several hundred people) with all my friends right there. None of them lifted a finger to help me either. Thanks, guys!
I had made fun of the guy the previous day in class for saying something really stupid and made everyone laugh. He wasn't too happy about it, apparently. We were both suspended. Funny thing was, I didn't even hit him back (though every instinct I had was screaming "KILL KILL," I was raised by pacifist hippies and just tried my best to keep him off me). I was suspended for being "involved in a fight" and "provoking him." I never understood why this guy and all his friends could physically abuse me on a near-daily basis and not "provoke" me into fighting, but my mere words could "provoke" him into violence over 24 hours later.

I pretty much gave up on pacifism after that. I could have saved my own dignity and satisfied my urge to pummel the guy and wound up with exactly the same result. Had I known I would be suspended either way, I surely would have behaved differently.


Did they beat you up because of your cape, dear?

Savage Clone 10.23.2006 10:03 AM

Let's just say the friendly shit I get around here for being a fashion victim with funny hair and a big mouth was not so friendly back then.
In all seriousness, the bullying went back many years before I started to "dress like a weirdo" in 8th/9th grade, but it certainly was amplified after that. 9th and 10th grade were the worst, but it died down in the last couple years of high school. Junior high was no picnic either, but high school was the worst!
The schoolyard is like prison. Pacifist philosophies are useless there. Best to trust your animal instincts and mercilessly beat a bully down right away when they first start giving you a hard time. Then they will move on to another target. My parents never really understood that, unfortunately.

"Just walk away, Erik!"

"Um, mom? The problem is they follow you when you do that, and then they kick your ass..."

HaydenAsche 10.23.2006 10:05 AM

I'm sorry, babe. Sincerely, I am.

I got jumped and beat up in the 7th grade. I started selling drugs in the 8th grade so I was not a target anymore.

against_the_grain 10.23.2006 10:15 AM

When I first moved to Hawaii I attended a Jr. High in Waikiki. Being one of only 4 white kids, the local mokes tended to give me the stinkeye. One Filipino kid named Collin constantly harrassed me. I couldn't understand his Pidgen english...he used to ask me....'Like Beef ?'....I said sure...I like chicken and pork too !! He'd always grumble in frustration. I didn't understand. Was he a vegetarian ? hmmmm.....

Later, on the last day of school, called kilhaole day, he approached me with a couple of other skinny friends...and said...so you like beef....and mumbled some more pidgen. When he got close enough I took a swing at him. I made it a GOOD one, connected to his mouth (I still have a scar) and popped it wide open !!!! He never had a chance, he went down bleeding and screaming as I ran like hell to my mother's car....no bus today, I knew trouble would be brewing....

So yeah, I was a bit harrassed and felt the predjudice of being a minority...but I didn't get hit ! Punk Filipino kid....I wonder if he's still a vegetarian ?.....hmmmmm....

HaydenAsche 10.23.2006 10:17 AM

Beef as in "got beef?". Do you like to fight? start drama?

That's beef.

against_the_grain 10.23.2006 10:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HaydenAsche
Beef as in "got beef?". Do you like to fight? start drama?

That's beef.


Pidgen Punks on dope !!! Proly meth (you supply ? ;) ), that's big in the land of Kahuna's.

Having a taste of his own Yean.. he gagged..being a vegetarian. That was 7th grade, I'm not a fighter...last time I threw a punch was 1972. I keep my violence in the verbal sense.

cryptowonderdruginvogue 10.23.2006 11:07 AM

no
no one was ever really bullied at my school
there was a couple of kids who were anti-social though

SplitPeaches 10.23.2006 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by against_the_grain
When I first moved to Hawaii I attended a Jr. High in Waikiki. Being one of only 4 white kids, the local mokes tended to give me the stinkeye. One Filipino kid named Collin constantly harrassed me. I couldn't understand his Pidgen english...he used to ask me....'Like Beef ?'....I said sure...I like chicken and pork too !! He'd always grumble in frustration. I didn't understand. Was he a vegetarian ? hmmmm.....

Later, on the last day of school, called kilhaole day, he approached me with a couple of other skinny friends...and said...so you like beef....and mumbled some more pidgen. When he got close enough I took a swing at him. I made it a GOOD one, connected to his mouth (I still have a scar) and popped it wide open !!!! He never had a chance, he went down bleeding and screaming as I ran like hell to my mother's car....no bus today, I knew trouble would be brewing....

So yeah, I was a bit harrassed and felt the predjudice of being a minority...but I didn't get hit ! Punk Filipino kid....I wonder if he's still a vegetarian ?.....hmmmmm....



Ole Hippie likes beef, eh? :P
either he meant beef as in "drama/fights"... or the "wheres the beef??" type of innuendo beef.. hahaha

Cantankerous 10.23.2006 07:48 PM

not really. i was always the cunt who would say shit to people.


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