Never ask a girl you like to get stoned
 

Fuck, bad move, me and this chick, we both really dig one another, but she lives somewhere else. Im a social retard and cant be in large groups or be confident with people i dont know well in person. She lives 600km from me, and i was going to go to her city for a concert this weekend. But she is booked out for saturday, and im booked for sunday.

She wanted me to stay back on monday and hang out with her in the city
Me being the social retard get very nervous and all that shit. So anyway, I think up this idea, just a meer suggestion, that why dont we get stoned later on and itll be fun..........:mad: nope, bad move. im immature now, wow what a turn off she says. And it all goes down hill from there.

that sucks...

parents have always told you, dont smoke weed.

fuck her bullshit.

find a girl who does not mind if you smoke. she does not have to partake herself, but at least she should be cool with whatever you want to do.

Drugs are bad, mmkay?

The last thing we need is perfectly fine girls spoiling themselves.

James Blonde doesn't believe you'll ever meet someone else again.

I second that. If you haven't got common ground, you likely won't want to be with her anyhow. She could have turned you down more diplomatically, anyhow - she could have merely said she isn't into weed, without the petty insult. Damn prude.

*Edit: That second was in response to Rob Instigator. I'm slow.

neither do i james..neither do i.

Thing is she smokes some times too. But it was a baaaaaaaad mooooooove

how old is she? how old are you? (not judging just asking)

Guess it's time to become a lonesome surfer, suggests James Blonde.

Just 'cos someone doesn't want to hang out with stoners, doesn't make them a bad person. Some of us enjoy conversations with lucid people.

both 19. We are the immature 19 though, not the getting out there and doing shit.

Well said.

She does smoke sometimes, she was telling me a story about how she was stoned the other night. I thought maybe seeings as me and her are pretty cool with one another she would be up for it. Its not a big deal in my group of friends, Its just a fun thing to do when bored.

*sigh* ill be alone for ever.

mmm, well i could understand her saying that if she was like 28ish but at 19 i would expect her to be more open to things like that.

Maybe the thing about not wanting to get stoned was just an excuse.

maybe, but i doubt it.

Thing is, i thought up the idea and said 'hey i got an idea" then i stopped and said ,"oh nah dont worry, its really dumb" and "you will get mad, dont worry about it, its a stupid idea", but she pushed it out of me.

On valentines day too.

You should have got her some heart-shaped candies instead. Big smokin' fatties aren't very romantic. At least not in my book.

I have met a thousand million stoners all highly lucid.
I ahve met a thousand million stoners, all burned out and non-lucid.

judge each person individually, stop basing your thoughts on "Just Say No" ad campaigns.

one time a friend and I helped two beautiful girls to jump their car and move it out of the street and as we were leaving they ran up to us and gae us a small box "for being so nice" and in the box was some sweet ganj.