Is my sister right?
 

She told me asking girls out is lame, that you should just start making out with them.

I sort of think that's a bad idea.

I don't know. Post a picture of your sister and her friends, and I'll give you an answer.

ha ha. ha ha ha. but...

if your sister means "use & discard them like cheap sluts", well, it works for some people.

hm, dude didn't your sister have some kind of problems or something? are you taking her opinions seriously all of the sudden? just saying...

Yes, don't going making a full of yourself. That's not cull.

this is my oldest sister, !@#$%! (I've got 3)

She's married and 30.

I sort of see her point. My friend Matt and I have only successfully started relationships through physical contact, not through asking a girl out.

The only time a girl rejected me making out was because she was catholic and she got scared about 5 minutes after we started. But I have a feeling I could have asked her out a few days later and she would have said yes.

Go to bed, swayback, you're brain's melting.

Pictures, I tell you!

oh. well maybe she's trying to tell you not to idealize girls too much and be a little more proactive? but the pleasures of a first date cannot be underestimated. if you start to make out with a girl during the first date, then you know life is good. of course there is something to be said for mouthfucking a stranger at a party, but it's not the same.

I'm hungry.

Whoa, swa(y), if you get into any more board fights, yr going to be disqualified, I tell you. Take it easy, sir.
gmku, I'm disappoined in you. You should know better! *wags finger*

No, yr sister's not right. What if this random girl thinks it sex'ial abuse, hm? (Bit of a joke... but I'm not into the whole "makin' out with random hoes" scene). Regardless... I agree with swa(y), getcher ass in line, you should have this shit figured out!

I think that is what she was sort of trying to tell me !@#$%!

I think she was also trying to tell me perhaps that you need to do something to sort of get in their head.

It's my way.

I can't post pictures of my sister because one of you might recognize her, and I respect her privacy.

Whatcha gonna do about it, huh, huh?

Well I know in the gay community this is widely accepted. Meet in the club, make out, go to his/or yours aparmtnet, go to the sofa(because the bed is most sacred), make out until both are hot and heavy(horny), someone will make the first move, go down, get fully undress, finally they start having intercourse, or so other sexual thing, then get dressed and go home.

If you ask me it is such a bore, I like meeting people and actually going out on dates, and getting to know them before we have sex.

That's cool. My suggestion: Respect her privacy. But not her advice. What kind of an older sister would tell her little brother a thing like that!

Your sister is kinda right.This whole 'asking a girl out' is a kinda 13yo thing. Things should just flow naturally. You just talk to girls, find out if you like them, if you both are using flirty body language it should just happen.

Sorry. I'm in mourning, you know. A guy doesn't behave himself always when he's grieving.

Me and you both gmku.

I think we need to start a [edited to keep from looking desperate in the Internet].