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I know I gave you advice on fb, but I just wnat to say I agree with floatingslowly 100%.
Like I said on fb, current girl is cool as hell, let you put her in a dominatrix outfit and film her for a short. Awesome chick. That other girl looks like the type who would spend 3 hours putting makeup on, and talking to all the NOFX doodz at the local punk shows you simply "Have to!" attend. Current girl has that quality that makes her more "girlfriend material", imo, and not just "fuck buddy" material...
Ultimately, I'd probably never go after a girl who seems to be a bit high maintenance.
My last girlfriend -- the one I was with 7 years who ultimately cheated on me -- thought REALLY highly of herself, and that's why she, uh, cheated on me. She thought she could do better -- she regrets it now. But the girl I'm with now is amazing in every way, she doesn't give a fuck what people think of her, and we have a much better relationship. She's a lot more artistic, open minded, and FUN -- in my opinion, that's what matters; we never fight. My last girlfriend, we fought every day; she was always trying to change things about me. My current girlfriend is into my music, my movies, loves to work with me on artistic stuff... is proud to be with me.
I think, ultimately, if you can find a girl you genuinely get along with, who loves being with you, that's the right girl. I wouldn't throw that away.. it's simply not worth it. A fuck may be good for a while, but if a relationship is bound to be good forever, that's the route to go down imo.
Also.. Sex is dead.
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