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my ex-girlfriend did kill herself. Not because of me...in fact it was 3 years afterward but a similar situation as your gf. Her dad was abusive and her family life was a total mess. She also did self harm (once carved mine and her initials into her belly inside a heart), and occasionally tried to hang herself.
But guess what? I was 15 and had no fucking idea what to do except comfort her. I was bathed in innocence still and came from a family that was the exact opposite and didn't know what to do. And so she just had enough at one point and hung herself. I hadn't talked to her for years, so I don't know exactly what was up with her life at that point...but it couldn't have been good.
The lesson of this is you need to keep doing something dude and keep proactive about it. Even if she doesn't help herself, if you talk to professionals that know how to handle these matters, they can tell you what you need to know to fix this situation. My prayers go out to you and her bro.
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