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Originally Posted by Nefeli
i dont think we need to actually talk much about music. its the whole smth that is behind it and in us, that provides a certain kind of connection. either we talk about between friends or partners.
(i dont find that here and i dont expect to find it.)
for me its almost the same, if someone just loves music. even if its not the same kind.
smth else. because we might not be very fair..
i think that the equation a thing+what the other is or we think he/she is+ chemistry(?)+y, can lead to the same line have opposite results on us.
hearing it from a person making us want to hug him/her, hearing from another, to punch him/her.
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Precisely. I can't imagine anyone having friends or a partner purely because of what they listen to, how they dress, or what they read. Most of us might say that we'd prefer someone with qualities or taste similar to ours, but generally if a person really is a good friend or a good partner they'll overcome things like that and compromise, if they sense it might be worth it. I mean, who wants to be around a person who's so fastidious about everything to the point they're an annoying twat? A masochist or someone with very low self-esteem, perhaps.