Nothing is faily innocous in a rape culture.
Nothing is harmless enough to make us feel less afraid of strange men.
Also, we don't come out on the street to be admired, approached, photographed, talked about, stared at.
Stop being sooo defensive.
Just listen to what I said, it's very simple:
Lesson 1: don't make women feel uncomfortable in a place you share with them.
Lesson 2: listen to them when they tell you they're bothered by something. Remember: you're not a woman, you don't know how it feels.
Lesson 3: keep your sexual thoughts to yourself. You don't need other men's approval of your libido to establish your identity as a straight men.
VOILA. DONE.
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