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Originally Posted by Magic Wheel Memory
Part of the problem is that our society's view of what constitutes cheating on a marriage is limited to active, rather than passive, aggression. The key phrase in a marriage vow is "I do", not "I don't." In other words, marriage is a promise that not only prohibits certain behavior, such as extramarital sex, but includes DOING certain things, such as loving and cherishing your partner.
When partner A loses interest in partner B and becomes unfeeling, uncaring and emotionally absent, why is that not considered cheating, even if partner A is not sleeping with someone else? If partner B, after years of realizing this isn't going to change, seeks love elsewhere, then partner B gets blamed for cheating and in some cases, breaking up the marriage. But wasn't the marriage already broken?
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Even in your scenario ending or even worse sabotaging a marriage is ridiculous..
Also, you went from
possibly suggesting poor sexual health in the relationship to now de facto asserting Kim was "uncaring, unfeeling, and emotionally absent" so perhaps you should quit while you are only down rather than waiting to lose your shirt and get tossed out the Casino?
after all...
