[choc e-Claire]

Yeah, true. I have no plans to come back though, at least not for a long time.

The story:
*35-something admin starts a relationship with early-20s mod
*I like and trust the admin, but hate the mod
*Part of it's jealousy, part of it's worry the admin will get hurt (she'd divorced within a year of starting this, and she rushed into it)
*she tells me that she'd broken up with the mod, and asked me not to talk to other people
*basically nothing changes, the server's still full of lovey stuff and the mod being a cunt
*I decide that I've had enough, and allude to being lied to
*mod DMs me to ask what's up, I show him, he says he had no idea and that they hadn't broken up
*I get mad, post the liar/dickhead comment in public (with a screenshot), and immediately leave
*shit starts, including the mod deleting the post and calling me 'unstable' when they're discussing it (he later tried to clarify)

But yeah. Shame, that was where I developed so much as a person. But I don't want to be under the thumb of someone I trusted, but who lied to me. Nor a dickhead like him.

(I met my ex-girlfriend there...)