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Originally Posted by ploesj
i wouldn never ever do that. i have seen what it does to a family last year. and that's another reason: i don't want them to lose someone that way again. and don't say it's selfish: a person with suicide thoughts has tunnel vision, which means he only sees death as the only solution, and not the other possible solutions. the only way to get him or her out of the idea of committing suicide is getting him out of the tunnel. and still, someone who really wants to die won't let anyone know: if someone is telling everyone he's going to end his life, that's more like a cry for attention. those attempts usually don't even succeed.
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It's true that their main focus will be on whatever problem they have, and any solutions. However, they still have the brain capacity to consider the concequences of suicide. Whether it's deliberate or not, it's still selfish to not take others into accord in any given situation.