In all honesty, I do the dinner out thing too, so I'm not being selfish... my wife would be more the type though to actually turn that down for me to buy something for myself, since i never do... and that's not sarcasm, i almost NEVER buy anything for myself. I'm usually the type that if I have a little extra, I start thinking of what I can buy for somebody, so I probably deserve to treat myself once in a while
