that must be it gmku. women are way more hurt by words than men are. and they know that men are more hurt when something they prize is damaged or destroyed. that is why one, as a man, must pretend to not care about material hings, even one's turntable, and act as if you are a romantic sap whose emotions hang on every word of encouragement or discouragment, etc., and then when they get real pissed at you they will trry to say hurtful girlie things instead of destroying your shit and you can laugh in their face...
man, I am in a mood today! stress!
bth my g/f and my ex-wife are more into the physical violence revenge, probably because they know no matter what I would not hit them back, and that damage to my records/books would be an unforgivable offense. My g/f a few months ago got so mad at me she shoved her long-nailed fingers into mu mouth and gouged out my gums under my tongue, all while driving.. that was shocking.
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