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Originally Posted by nomadicfollower
No true girlfriends.
No pleasing contact.
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oh! you're NEW. no wonder.
ok, remember this-- it's the job of the man to push & the job of the girl to pull back. such is the mating dance.
when you tell her "patience heightens passion" you're robbing her of her role. don't do that. it's her job to act coy, if a all. so, go hunter, & stalk your prey!
if you want her, don't be coy. no no no no no! she needs to feel
appreciated. wanted. sexy. beautiful.
but anyway, my advice, my silly advice, after years of teenage pain, is: THINK LESS. and shut the fuck up!
(i say this in a good way).
we know you're nervous, but, get a hold of yourself & take a deep breath & be cool. we know your mind is racing thinking a million thoughts but those are a bunch of horseshit. just take a deep breath, return your mind to your body, and for the love of god
pounce when the opportunity presents itself.
think less. i swear. i don't mean become stupid-- i mean ACT.
there's this little game i like to play you just let the woman speak, speak, speak, and you say "uh-huh" and "yeah" and "mmm" and you don't have to to any talking. some times you have to just shut up.
now am i rambling here? suuuuure! but everybody got butterflies the first time around. the 2nd and the 3rd too. you gotta just jump.
in the meantime, read some kissing manuals. dont go & shove your teeth on her lip or headbutt her nose. that can be cute, sure, but won't get you a lot of action. think of this-- she's probably as nervous as you. make her feel at ease.
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Originally Posted by screamingskull
she's asking for you to make your move! go for it!
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and lissen to the superkoolgirl #1