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Originally Posted by Nefeli
chasing (the bear...) -thanks.
you are absolutely right of course.
just seeing the issue of random sex being usually taking so lightly and with humor, using terms and categorising people like this didnt shock me or made me think in politically correct way, have to admit.
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Absolutely. There's nothing wrong with using those terms, and they have been invented by gays themselves, so there's nothing offensive about them. In my experience bears are just happy to be thought of as that, rather than, erm, fat b......... It gives them the status of sex gods, rather than being thought of as someone who might have a slight eating problem, and therefore a mental one too. I just find it kinda wrong, because i don't like people who define their sex appeal by their own looks alone, but then i find a lot of things wrong in general.