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Originally Posted by Nefeli
i think that girl is just the typical example of being in love and young and yes with some weak personality. however, when a person still interests you as a friend, you can attempt having an open conversation of what is bothering you. more correctly, you feel the need to do that. its tougher since a boy is involved and she might not been seeing clearly, it can also result to completly ruinging the friendship, but since its not of high quality anymore, why not give it a shot.
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now that's the best advice i've read so far. but i should continue reading...
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Originally Posted by luxinterior
I don't expect my friends to be perfect. I expect them to be at least tolerable, generally speaking, and they are not.
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you need new friends. or as nefeli wisely adviced, discuss it with your former best friend-- you have nothing to lose, after all, no?
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Originally Posted by SynthethicalY
My friends live in different parts of town, and it is a hassle to go back and forth to pick everyone up to hang out. But all my high school friends used to annoy me, so I hardly talk to them. It is just life, that is telling you to grow up, and need to know how to act, that is all.
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it's called growing up. as you become more of an individual, you realized that you can no longer match the expectations of the herd. well, not
herd. but as a teenager it's easy to make friends-- you can be friends with practically anybody. as you develop and define your own personality, you realize it's harder to match. that's why people gravitate towards their relationships in young adulthood and relate less to their groups of friends-- it's the natural impuse to mate after all. happens to everybody.