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Originally Posted by luxinterior
Once I moved back to my hometown, after a completely disastrous semester in Chicago, a lot of people I know--including certain friends and family members--began to look down on me for something that I felt wasn't so much of a choice as a necessity. I still have to take crap about it from people who don't even understand the whole ordeal, simply because they want to believe I chickened out in some way. Who would want to live in a place where they don't feel welcome?
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Don't you love it how quick people are to judge when they haven't walked in your shoes?
I eliminated all of those friends.
Now I have friends that don't judge me, but instead get really annoying after awhile.
I have a few friends that are more quiet, and they don't say much, but I can talk to them, and they seem to get it. My one friend like this called me when he was in Nashville just because he was bored. Another friend of mine is in the military, and I barely knew him before he left, but he got ahold of my number and he calls me and tells me about parties and stuff when he comes to visit town on leave.
I hate to sound like a girl, but I love when a friend calls me for no reason. Because they felt like talking to me, and might have had a little bit of information to convey me, but nothing dire. It makes me feel like I'm actually their friend, and not just somebody to hang out with when bored. Or the guy with the big house and a really nice mom that makes everyone tea.