I could post seriously on this, but I fear my ruminations may be lost on you poor bastards.
All I'll say is that if you find inducing an orgasm in your partner a chore in any way, or it isn't mutually enjoyable regardless of who is on the receiving end, then you're wasting your time. There is no infallible "how-to" manual for sex, and once you start treating it as a task, you might as well jerk off and save yourself whatever you spent on dinner to get the chick in bed in the first place.
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