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Originally Posted by luxinterior
I think you're missing my point, which is that I shouldn't have to change my reaction to what you wrote just because you happened to be the one writing it. It's not as if I'm going to carry some sort of grudge against you from now on. I mean, this is a pretty minor issue in the scheme of things. But I'm also not going to play nice when I don't feel like playing nice, just because I'm usually friendly with you. I feel like you're guilt-tripping me when I don't think my original reply was nearly as bad as you're making it out to be. Obviously I don't think you're a retard, but I also think that kind of goes without saying. I've said much worse to various people on the board and I don't think they took it as seriously as you are now. Outside of their individual threads it was all pretty much forgotten. For instance, I would say that I am on remarkable terms with swa(y) even though I can recall a few instances in which we've really torn into one another, for what I can't even remember. In your case, yes, I could have been nicer, and maybe I should have been nicer for a number of reasons, but to me a disagreement is a disagreement, no matter who it's with, and what you said ticked me off. I still disagree with you, even after the explanations (which I don't fully understand). So you can say whatever the fuck you want, but I can't? That's what it comes down to, really. I think I'm usually easy-going, and I have a decent enough inner censor, but even I get sick of playing that. And of course now you're projecting everything I said about you back onto me, as if I'm in some way confused. I'm not confused. This whole thing has been about your opinions (which I would have just ignored if they hadn't been unsupported, because I have plenty of friends who dislike certain books that I like and who would never want to sit through most of the movies I enjoy, and I couldn't care less about it). It was the way in which you gave your opinion that offended me, not the opinions themselves.
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see, if this continues i'm going to start laughing uncontrollably and i won't be able to stay mad at you.
i'm not sway. i don't like to be talked to that way. i dont mind if you disagree with me all you want-- actually i enjoy a bit of a disagreement, it's tasty.
so you didn't like how expressed my opinions, but did you feel
offended? i wasn't shitting on you. i didn't say "hey you dumbass and your dumbass movie". i called a movie crap. based on expectations sure. shit, you weren't even in the thread when i posted.
and of course you could have been nicer to me. i don't like to be treated like i grew up among donkeys, for fucks sakes. i may have been an ass to some movie you like (i'll send a card to the director), but you were an ass to me. ASS.
im not saying you're confused, but for fucks sakes, when did i ever talk to you the way you did to me? (ok-- in this thread-- but you asked for it). for real, wtf? disagree with me all you want, and if what i say really bugs you let me know, but lashing out like that is not cool.
but really luxes, i am in spite of my hardcore exterior quite sensitive when it comes to people i consider friends, even if it's just online. sure you have said worse to people, and i have said worse to *a lot* of people, but some people for me get a free pass or something. i have been nothing but nice to you even when i think you dont know what you're mumbling about (which is rare, but it happens). so because of this "equal treatment",
you huyt my feewings, you inconsiderate ass.
ok, im laughing at this point. can we be nice to each other again, or should we continue with the nonsense? really, i'd like to like you again and forget your temporary case of the rabies. if you can correspondingly forget my alzehemers it will all be well.
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