* If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
* Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
* Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
* Slower is better.
* Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly
happy.
* If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
* Don't settle.
* If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
* Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad
a t yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
* The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
* Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would
he treat you any differently?
* Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
* Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up.
* Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
later.
* You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
* Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are.
Even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
* Never let a man define who you are.
* Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll
cheat on you.
* A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
* All men are NOT dogs.
* You should not be the one doing all the bending ... compromise is a two
way street.
* You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute
about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
* You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals so look for someone complimentary, not
supplementary.
* Dating is fun. Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
* Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are, and
you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
* Never move into his mother's house.
* Never co-sign for a man.
* Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... :-)
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her/his choices, and
another woman prepare, and a man aware.