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Our emotions tell us what we really think about something.

Love is one of the few things in life we have no conscious control over. Love and attraction is not a conscious decision, otherwise we would choose our lovers by thinking...

Oh well, she's really emotionally stable and her mom and dad, oh well they are just lovely, so I know she also comes from a great family. To add icing to the cake she works as a lawyer and makes a lot of money. Hmmm, I think i am in love with this girl.

A person may be all these wonderful things and much, much more. But the reason we fall in love with them is beyond conscious reasoning and thought. It is rather ethereal and unexplainable - and that is what makes it so wonderful.

I am sure we can all relate to the pain you are describing.

The best coarse of action, I think, is to make sure you do not let her slip out of your life completely.

The world is full of scumbags and life is too short to lose those we love and care about - and those who return our love.

Stay in touch and stay affectionate with her if that is what she also wants.

None of us can swim against the tide for too long - and if the right feelings and emotions exist between both of you it will happen naturally as a consequence of what must be.