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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom
i asked a boy if he's attending homecoming and if he wants to go with me. yes, i am a terrible person.
should i wait until he gives me a final answer to break up or do it now?
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This is an interesting situation!
The thing with telling him off right away, is that you need to approach him and whether he intended to go with you or not, tell him you're not interested anymore. Then again, if you wait for a final answer, he might say he doesn't want to anyway, and you're off the hook.
It's a pretty tight call, but personally I think that it would be more benificial to wait for a final answer, and you can probably slip a quick "oh sorrrry, I believe I have someone else", or "I really don't know if I'm going" or demonstrating uncertainty some way to tell him off politely,
but also be truthful. But if you talk to him often enough and the subject comes up BEFORE he gives you an answer, then tell him then. Otherwise, if you go out of your way to tell him you're not available anymore, it might make you look pretty bad