[val-holla-ing]

it's not a stereotype and it's not my personal version of reality. if that were the case, the country wouldn't be on the verge of being polarized over the issue of the first black or female president.

the white male is percieved as the bread and butter of most of the entire planet. that alone, gives them an advantage over most any other group of people. how can you not see that? i'm not saying there's anything wrong with being who you are, but just know that your position of advantage makes it so much easier to ignore anyone in a position less than yours.