[luxinterior]

Never be too nice to a person at the beginning of a relationship. If you are, they'll freak out once you show your true colors. If you're just your regular, abusive self from the get-go, the only real surprise that could come later is that you might actually be a decent person after all, and isn't that nice? If the other person has made it far enough to see that, then they must be worth your time.