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Originally Posted by luxinterior

I think I unconsciously look for people who know it's all in good fun, and who don't take themselves so seriously that they would be offended by my abuse. He just likes the attention, for sure. Chelsey acts like we're a good match; she is basically responsible for most of this.

oh i see. a common sensibility to certain type of humor.

so did your friend chelsey hypnotize you or what? i doubt it. i think she just pointed out the obvious.

and now your *real* problem when you cut the bullshit is.. how to not be "just friends" anymore?

well, i don't know what you can do, but i'll say this: i like for a woman to show interest in me, but as a man, i like to be the pursuer. so if he likes you and he needs a hint that you are available, there are these girly things girls to that give a man courage, ha ha. let him pounce. but then again, who knows?

once i was heavily interested in this woman and i started hanging out with her, but refrained from making advances for reasons i won't discuss here. so eventually she asked me if i wanted to go to a movie. we never actually made it to the movie, but we ended up being together for quite a long and stormy, passionate, and ultimately hellish time-- ha ha ha. i chased her half around the planet but eventually we split. but we were jaded corrupt people at this point.

of course you're young, and whatever happens, it will happen, so don't rush it. if this guy is into you the same way you seem to be into him, he' s not going anywhere. less calculations & more gut instinct will help you sort things out. have fun & enjoy.