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Originally Posted by gmku
Too funny. Basing a relationship on liking or disliking a band??? Maybe in general it's good to like the same kinds of music. But then what if tastes change? What if you stop liking Sonic Youth or get into other things? For example, my wife really didn't like much of the "alternative" stuff I liked in teh 80s and early 90s but now she does. Because people do change in this regard, I think a relationship should be based on something a little broader, deeper.
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That's a very good point. An ex of mine used to play Belle and Sebastaian so much that I ended up liking them a lot. We never really talked about them or music much in general, and he never forced them onto me or anything. He just happened to play them on a regular basis, making them more present in my life and forcing me to listen to their lyrics more. I like it when that happens because it's a totally natural process.