[batreleaser]

its sad sad stuff, but just do your best to be there for your brother, you dont need to cry or really be stricken with grief, but you do need to be there for loved ones that are stricken with grief. they say the death of a child is one of the most devastating thing on a human psyche. i remember my father once telling me just the thought of losing one of his kids sends him into a tailspin of momentary depression, so i cant even imagine losing a child that young, forever left to think of what he would have been like as he got older. so just give all the support you can give.