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Originally Posted by Nefeli
ah that one..right...
do you know the feeling when you start saying smth uncool that bothers you, even if its a small thing and the other picks up your last line and starts telling his/her story? or they just listen and there is silence!?
i agree with not expecting from your friends, i m on the same wave
but there are limits, especially like what you describe, when smth really shitty happens to you.
maybe they arent used to you telling about your problems, or expressing feelings and darker thoughts. they are used to you being easygoing, funny, strong and find themselves in a situation where they dont know how to handle, when you express smth complicated and sad.
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Yeah, I have friends like that. I recently ended a three year relationship, and I didn't hear one iota from any of my friends, yet they all knew. Although when a few of them split from their partners after only a few months, I was still there for them when they were weeping and pissing themselves.
I got more condolences etc, from people I don't know that well.
While from my friends I got phone msgs, and mysapce msgs saying "come over and get drunk". Like that was going to solve the heartache?
I'd be extreeeeemly pissed off at them and hold a grudge, if I wasn't as independantly as strong as I am and can get myself through things being alone.