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Originally Posted by uhler

so i went up to nyc to see this girl that i was dating. well, she was acting a little weird. after the first day she said that she's scared because she likes me a lot and doesn't want to rush things and wants to take it slow.

i'm scared that she'll lose interest in me. i like her more than i liked anyone. the hardest part is taking things slow when i live in florida and she lives in nyc. i do plan on moving up there in june, but that's still three months away. most of the people that i talked to said when the girl says that we should take things slow it's nothing good. only one person said it's great news.

anyone have any advise?

three months is nothing. hone your phone sex kungfu and you'll be fine.

if it was a longer time, i'd worry.

also you can have an intermediate visit maybe.

are you a good letter writer too?

you just wanna make sure that she doesn't feel lonely/forgotten in all this time, so she doesn't need to find consolation elsewhere. if she's fearful of getting hurt, reassure her.

whatever happens at the end man, just be sure it's memorable.