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Originally Posted by uhler

so i went up to nyc to see this girl that i was dating. well, she was acting a little weird. after the first day she said that she's scared because she likes me a lot and doesn't want to rush things and wants to take it slow.

i'm scared that she'll lose interest in me. i like her more than i liked anyone. the hardest part is taking things slow when i live in florida and she lives in nyc. i do plan on moving up there in june, but that's still three months away. most of the people that i talked to said when the girl says that we should take things slow it's nothing good. only one person said it's great news.

anyone have any advise?

take as much time as you can. no need to rush into things. if things work out, then the two of you will have an incredible bond as your relationship progresses. if not, the chances of you two being still being friends are stronger than if you two were 'madly in luuuv' without even finding out each other's last names.

if she loses interest, oh well (sorry if that sounds harsh). you can meet five soulmates in one night on the town in new york.