[jon boy]

if you are extremely sad and things are worrying you then you really need to deal with the base problem in order to sort things out otherwise you will get no peace of mind at all. if you really do feel bad then it really doesnt matter where you go or what you do the underlying problem will still be there and will dominate so its better to sort it out. if its a relationship breakup then only time and distance will ease the pain and although it can take a while things do get better and easier to understand. i would avoid the obvious escapes as this will only make things worse and stay sober.