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Originally Posted by lucyrulesok
Is it more important to accept yourself for who you are, or to try and change the things abour yourself that you don't like?
Recently I've been feeling pretty down about myself (like every other boardie seems to be too - I thought summer was supposed to be a happy time?) and I don't know whether I should just work on being happy with the way I am, or try and change my life (this would have to be a pretty radical change).
When and how do you know that your life is 'wrong' or 'bad' as opposed to just having a lack of confidence in yourself and the things you do?
Sorry just rambling a bit here, but it would be good to get some other opinions, it's really hard to look at your own life objectively.
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i just accept the things that i would like to change about myself but can't. for example, i will always be needing to be in a relationship, even when i try to tell myself i don't need to be in one i can't change myself no matter how much i want to. but then again if i was forced to change something about myself that was destroying me than i would and could. i don't know maybe that's not the answer you're expecting.
you're right though a lot of people have been down on this board lately. that includes myself. i think that will change after i move though. i'm just going through a depression because of boredom.